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ElectroPhunk
April 28th, 2009, 05:14 PM
Hi Guys...
I am a freshman....a really quiet frewshman, and its hard for me to make friends....I am like the quietest one in my school....Idk if i have a personality disorder...
Anyways I only have 4 good friends

Friend #1- I dont really have any problems with him...he's funny
Friend #2- same as friend 1
Friend #3- probably my best friend from here
Friend #4-he's the one i'm having troubles with..... he always puinches me and tries to shove me in lockers and stuff...I tell him to Stop and back off but he keeps on going....And today .. he acudsed me of dumping this yogurt stuff on his back which i didn't....now tommorrow he wants to beat me up :(
He already punched my arm and stomach hard today. None of my friends ever do anything they just sit back and laugh but they dont do it to me,,,
I know there not my real friends (except for #3)
I never do anything about him but just say stop... but i mostly smile...the fakest smile ever. I always smile and pretend like nothings happening just to hide the fact that i am depressed inside. I want to make new friends but i cant ... im just stuck with them...
I just dont want to get beat up tommorrow:(

DrkZ90
April 28th, 2009, 08:58 PM
that's terrible to hear, why do you call #4 a friend all in all? (I kinda know the answer from self experience, but I'm just checking...)

If #3 is a real friend, why not ask for his help?... also, what about telling a teacher or some other authority at school? they might be able to help so you don't get beaten up tomorrow...

Bottom line is... you can't consider someone that does all those things to you a friend, not even a fake one... is not a person worth having nearby... and look for your real friend's help, he's there for you, isn't him?

ElectroPhunk
April 28th, 2009, 09:14 PM
idk i'm kinda to scared and nervous about telling anyone about it...im too quiet
i only consider #4 a friend because he hangs out with us and stuff....and everybody likes him.

awkward silence
April 28th, 2009, 11:43 PM
well. it seems like you doesnt want to tell because you are worried about them getting mad about it and not hanging liking you anymore (just my observation could be wrong) i think that he isnt worth being called a friend ether whether he hangs out with you or not. that is terrible and friends dont do that to each other. i know what you mean about it being hard to make friends i really do. but with friends like that who needs enemies. i think that what he said about getting number 3 to help was a good idea though. and if that doesnt work then ether confront him about it and ask him what his problem is or get help from an adult.

Truth
April 29th, 2009, 12:11 AM
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