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Archos
April 28th, 2009, 10:50 AM
Right so, this is the story so far:

I met this guy, we started talking and got closer and closer. We are rather friendly now. Somewhere along the line i started to have feelings for him, which only got stronger the more we talked. But yesterday, i told him that i liked him because he found out i had a crush on someone and went all down when i wouldn't tell him. After a while of me hiding i came back and we started to talk as normal for a bit, me trying to avoid the chat about me liking him. Later on in the night he said (actual words, msn history=win) "I will, but before i do and get my tea, it only fair if i say then i can run while i get my tea and make it. Alex likes Andrew". This made me rather smiley and i was still happy when we started to try and talk as normal.

I'm meeting him for like, the third time, on thursday. The other times i saw him we had just bumped into each other in town and not really said much since we were both in our little groups of friends. I actually have no idea what i should do now, I know we both acknowledged that we like each other but i think it will just be awkard, especially since we will be alone for a few hours in town.

Suggestions?

Thanks <3

lesher
April 28th, 2009, 11:31 AM
Dude.... You both are male? Are you... gay? I'm sorry, seriously, because that's the part I didn't understand...

Or you've just mistyped?

Archos
April 28th, 2009, 11:33 AM
That's the general idea when two boys like each other, yes.

lesher
April 28th, 2009, 11:52 AM
Boy, oh boy... I'm... speechless, sorry >_<

Blue63
April 28th, 2009, 03:42 PM
Well I was on the other end of something like this once, this girl told me she liked and it was out of the blue a bit, I was shocked and backed away. Probably like he did when you told him. But then things got a little more relaxed and we began to talk again and I realized I did sort of have feelings for her, and here is what I wish she would have done:

Well you say you are going to see him again soon? Here is my advice, hang out with him like normal for a while, so that he is comfortable. Then try and get a little more flirty so in the back of his mind he begins to think Oh right, he likes me, well you know maybe it is a good thing Hopefully he will respond with some flirtation to and then just kind of follow your instincts, talk about it if you want and great things could come from it.

Sunshine Girl
April 28th, 2009, 09:19 PM
hmm im not sure.
I bet once you both get to talking you will get less and less nervous. maybe take him to lunch or somthing? shopping? idk what you like to do.
(:
have fun.

awkward silence
April 29th, 2009, 12:04 AM
Boy, oh boy... I'm... speechless, sorry >_<

first off if you have nothing good to say dont past it. not saying asking questions is wrong but this part isnt cool. it is a normal and natural thing. love is beautiful in every way wether between 2 guys 2 girls or a guy and a girl.

now to the topic. i think that you should just be your self . act how you would usualy act and get to know more about him. then when you feel comfortable just kind of eas into a convorsation about it. you also need to let him get comfortable about it. he obviusly isnt against it if he wants to hang out with you more. and if he brings it up then just go with the conversation and let thing progress as they are. dont rush thing. thats how i see it. hope it works out for you and good luck im rooting for you. ^_^