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lesher
April 28th, 2009, 07:10 AM
As the topic title says, what should I do to know someone I like better?
Everyone says suggest that I should know her better, but I don't really know what to say (I'm running out of topics to talk) to her...
I'm not acting awkward or funny in front of her, but I don't know what to say... T_T
- I believe that she doesn't know that I actually liked her... Are womans very sensitive (maybe something like sixth sense, I don't know) about knowing that someone liked her?

Can someone suggest me some topics that worth discussing with her or another alternative to knowing her better?

Oh, this isn't just for me. If someone want to post a question or feels the way I do, please feel free to reply!

IAMWILL
April 28th, 2009, 09:56 PM
Lol this is classic.

The fact is is that there is always something to talk about, and you're just getting nervous. Try relaxing your body and mind (no, Red Bull won't do this) and be yourself. Don't try to say anything thats not you either, you must be honest.

Girls don't have a sixth sense, lol :P You're once again just a little nervous, and maybe you're over exposing the fact that you like her without noticing, its pretty easy to do. You should always get to know a girl well though before asking her out, so your friends are right here. Just talk about something you know you have in common, or what it seems you have in common. Stay calm, listen to her every word, don't be a suck up, and give your honest opinions on everything. You'll be fine then, and if you two come to like each other, you'll notice that you have a lot to talk about.

lesher
April 29th, 2009, 06:46 AM
1. I don't know what "in common" things with her without knowing her well first, right?
2. Ppl around me says that girl are pretty sensitive...
3. "listen to her every word" -> Okay, and I will! But she doesn't talk much..
4. "give your honest opinions on everything" -> Ofc
5. "you'll notice that you have a lot to talk about" -> Some examples please? Pretty please? I'm desperate because I have very damn few topics to talk about...

Anyway, I'm a very quiet person and only talk when needed... They called me "statue" while I'm on elementary school