how bout this?

[Stevie J]

sometimes i wish i was a woman, for likea day or like my best friend would let me go down... is that normal?

[gotanyDman]

it is normal to wish to be a woman. subcontiously you lust for women and being one would mean you would have a woman to be sexual with (yourself).

PM me if you ever need to talk. i know i do. :-)

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Is your best friend another guy, is that part of the confusion? Either way, it's fine. I think everyone entertains the thought of what it might be like to be the other gender, at some point. I know guys who have had dreams where they were a girl, even, so I know this happens to other people.

It's also normal to fantasize about messing around with a friend, even one of the same gender. You're going through puberty, your hormones are going crazy, and it's normal to be curious about things. Perhaps you feel that, if you were a girl, it would be more "acceptable" to have those thoughts? Or that, being a guy, it's impossible for it to happen? I think fantasies tend to be more enjoyable when there's even the tiniest sliver of possibility that maybe it could happen, so maybe if you were a girl it would provide that possibility for you?

Whatever the reason, don't worry about it. You're fine. :)

[Patchy]

Jessi has really covered this well!

Its a complicated thing to understand, you want to do stuff with your best mate yet you don't since you might lose him/her as a mate.

But as Jessi said its hormones and your thoughts and feelings towards people will change throughout puberty.

Normal :)