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Θάνατος
April 27th, 2009, 06:10 PM
Do you feel like you are being used by your friends? I do and I am very tired of it. I feel like I am just a joke to them or a piece of garbage that you throw out when you are no longer needed.

Sugar.Candii
April 27th, 2009, 06:55 PM
Yea I have felt this way plenty of times.

Try surrounding yourself around people who will not only would like you to do things for them, but wouldn't mind doing something you enjoy as well. I don't think that if you feel this way, you should consider these people as friends. Because "friends" shouldn't make you feel used.

Anyways let me stop before I keep going on and on. Lol.

NeverTooLate
April 27th, 2009, 06:58 PM
yep just for my money

Blue63
April 27th, 2009, 08:20 PM
People say that in every group of friends there is one there just to make fun of, sadly I think it's true, even if it's sub-conscious.

You know this happened to me for a little bit and it turned out to be just a phase, try and see if it passes, and if it doesn't find new friends.

DrkZ90
April 27th, 2009, 09:31 PM
yep, for the last 7 years... part of why I've been so depressed and all... indeed, I've thought about it with the exact same words, creepy...

a piece of garbage that you throw out when you are no longer needed.

I thought that it was just me making things in my mind, but now that we are out of school and don't get to see each other that much I can really see how they use me... they never call or talk to me unless they really have to because they need something from me...

On the other hand, I just can't say no when a "friend" needs me... I would kill myself if I couldn't at least lie to myself about them being my friends...

Skeln
April 27th, 2009, 09:45 PM
Yeah, I've gone through this too. It happens, and soemtimes it's just a feeling, and sometimes it's actually true. Try to test your friends loyalty to you, see if they're relly your friends. If their not, at least you have us! Hopefully we're not your only set of friend though...but yeah at least you'll have friends in the long run.

Θάνατος
April 27th, 2009, 10:47 PM
yep, for the last 7 years... part of why I've been so depressed and all... indeed, I've thought about it with the exact same words, creepy...


I thought that it was just me making things in my mind, but now that we are out of school and don't get to see each other that much I can really see how they use me... they never call or talk to me unless they really have to because they need something from me...

On the other hand, I just can't say no when a "friend" needs me... I would kill myself if I couldn't at least lie to myself about them being my friends...

Yeah I am the same way I can't say not to people and I even do stupid things with my online friends too.

Hyper
April 28th, 2009, 12:18 AM
No.. People like that aren't ''friends'' and I don't keep anyone like that around me

AutumnDae
April 29th, 2009, 06:06 AM
I have, a bit. Not too much though.

Most of my friends always need help with homework...and I'm usually the go to person because I'm the only one who can figure things out, or I already know how to do it. I get feeling like they are just using me for that occasionally, but then I do know that they really care about me by the way they do other things.