Gay or Bi?

[itsadamrawrr]

Well I really like women, but more-so as for the relationship than as most guys sexual reasons. But I masturbate to men like all the time, and I rarely do to women..

This may sound like a stupid question, but I'm confused..:what:

[Skeln]

We get this all the time, don't worry. You're not alone.

*Clears throat* Gay and bisuality are EMOTIONAL ATTRACTIONS to someone of the same sex, or to both sexes. If it's only physicalattraction the yeah your most likely not bisexual or gay, but really I can't tell you for sure. It's your decision and your's alone, and we here on VT won't judge you for that.

[iJoel]

I disagree with what Sleln said. Society made the words gay, straight and bi and thus they would to society basicly come down to the sexual side of things.

For me I say, if your really sexually thinking about guys and putting that thought to an action e.g. Masturbation then I would define there.

But of course, you could be experimenting or curious. But still, best to say that you should look into your emotions a little more and remember these three categories:

Sexually Attracted
Physically Attracted
Emotionally Attracted

Each mean a different thing, Sexually is of course, sexual things that you would think about doing to that same gender.

Physical being there looks, there personalities and such.

Emanational is most important but not as far as the words "gay, straight and bi" go. Emotionally basically means in very low terms. Would you look into maybe trying to data a guy and see what happens?

[nick]

I don't think there's enough information for anyone to be a able to give you a definite answer, confused is a perfectly reasonable thing to be though. Stay relaxed about things and allow more time for things to become more clear.

Sometimes we rush to attach labels to people when there is no real need to do so. Stay cool, and in the mean time feel free to discuss your feelings and experiences openly on here because noone will judge you badly.

[itsadamrawrr]

alright, thanks. ;]

This may be obvious, but I'm Sexually Attracted to men, and Physically & Emotionally to women. lol

[nick]

alright, thanks. ;]

This may be obvious, but I'm Sexually Attracted to men, and Physically & Emotionally to women. lol
Well if its any help, that will not make you in anyway unusual around here.

[simplysmofe]

Mirror image of my mind.