How does this guy get away with all of this?

[Diadora]

So, I know a guy, and he is incredibly annoying in the eyes of me, and almost all other males who know him. Yet, every female he meets seems to not mind anything he does in the slightest, and it's starting to piss me off, ALOT. I try to be nice and respectful, and he just goes and "accidently" grabs a breast or, gets a handful of butt while carrying them. Hell, I saw him dancing with some girl, and they were all over each other, even pelvic thrusting at each other, to be blunt, almost as if they were having sex with their clothes on. To make the aforementioned situation worse, the guys GF could pretty much care less, and the aforementioned dancing girls BF is one of my friends, and I want to tell him about it, as stuff like that happens with this guy all the time, but he likes her alot. He talks about how she let him get to second base, and he says how much he likes her, and seeing this guy just makes me feel bad for him. I don't understand how someone who is just totally disrespectful of personal space, and is constantly talking about sex jokes and such gets away with so much. Curious, to any guys, do you know anyone like this? To the girls, do you know anyone like this, and from the above, what would you think of a guy like that.

[pcd31]

There are two explanations for his actions:
1. He must be super sexy and irresistible to the point where nobody can stay off him.
2. He's mentally challenged and the girls don't want to hurt his feelings.

[Aneklusmos]

Wow....that's is almost exactly the situation I have!! freaky..... anyways with me it's just that one of the girls used to go out with him, and he can't get it through his head that she broke up with him.

[Jean Poutine]

Nice guys finish last.

Most girls hold nice guys in contempt and want the self-assured jerk type, at least until they hit the thirties.

Get used to it.

[lesher]

Wow, this is another new situation I've known so far... Can't really say anything though :(

[ebony15]

Yeah, i cant say nythang right now.. i've never met a boy like that

[zdallasz]

ehhh i kinda know a guy like him.

[Truth]

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[Sage]

He's a jackass and they're all whores. Nice girls don't come along too often, nor do nice guys. Be patient.

[Lady_Chaos]

I know lots of guys that are like that, I would never consider going out with any of them because all of them are complete jerks and are normally only after one thing. I like the weird nerdy people that are kinda set off from the rest of the "crew". People that go and thrust themselves are just annoying and gross to be honest. But if those girls like that sort of thing, then let them be. They'll find out sooner or later...

I know like 3 mentally challenged guys that like to go and grab tits and ass -- on boys and girls -- and I try and stay away from them as much as possible... Its just unfortunate that all of them have the same lunch period as me... So maybe he is mental... Is he in any "Special" classes?

[Origami]

The world we live in these days is consumed with lust. By majority, people would most likely describe lust if asked the definition of love. They've become horribly confused.
The "touching" is somewhat enjoyable to the girls now-a-days [not all, just a decent portion, such as those you seem to mention.] It's sickening to think about and witness, I know, but the thing is that it will always happen, that's that. If the term "gentleman" still meant what it used to, and not every lustful slob who can hold a door open was mistaken for one, then such stuff might not be so easily gotten away with. ):

[skinny_white_boy]

same as i have theres this guy i cant stand he is always spitting out lies and ppl believe him and the girls would be all over him (not like tht but u no wat i mean)

[Underground_Network]

Yeah, I know a couple of guys like that. They sicken me.

And there are a bunch of guys like them that I know too, they're just not as bad... But they're still assholes.

[jack straw]

The world we live in these days is consumed with lust. By majority, people would most likely describe lust if asked the definition of love. They've become horribly confused.
The "touching" is somewhat enjoyable to the girls now-a-days [not all, just a decent portion, such as those you seem to mention.] It's sickening to think about and witness, I know, but the thing is that it will always happen, that's that. If the term "gentleman" still meant what it used to, and not every lustful slob who can hold a door open was mistaken for one, then such stuff might not be so easily gotten away with. ):

I know exactly what you mean! I did actually ask a girl the other day what she thought the defination of love was, and (I knew she would say this, but I had to make sure) she said "Love? love is like, um, you know, when you meet that really hot guy and you know that you wanna F*** him? yea, that's love...)
WOW. that's terribly sad. I can see that touching would be enjoyable, since the thrill of doing something naughty combined with the massive amount of nerve endings in the genitalia.

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As far as what you've said with being a gentelman, I know only a few kids who actually open doors of people or do something nice, and most of those few do it only to impress the girl their with. I hold doors open just because it's a habit I've been taught since I was just a little kid. I've helped people carry heavy things to their cars; I do massive amounts of voluntier work, I do consider myself a gentelman, and, sadly, I see that there are a few out there who use that term just to get in a girls pants.



He's a jackass and they're all whores. Nice girls don't come along too often, nor do nice guys. Be patient.

Thank You Deschain. I know all to well that (especially where I live) truly genueinly nice people are hard to come by. The upper-middle class + areas always seem to have quite a few stuck up, snot nosed brats who cry and bitch to get what they want. I know 3 kids who got their first car, was a brand new hummer. wtf??? Those are almost always the kids who think they can do whatever they want, although there are always exceptions...

[Oblivion]

He's a not nice boy and they're all not nice girls. Nice girls don't come along too often, nor do nice guys. Be patient.

Quote fixed and agreed :P

If those girls are just attracted by whatever shallow good points he has, then obviously they aren't the girl for you. Wait until a girl that truly cares for you comes along.