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Stevie J
April 25th, 2009, 09:28 PM
Im like 18 almost and im straight... for the most part. i Love women and ive only been attracted to one male in my life sorta. But i REALLY wanna give a blowjob. Idk what it is but when i watch porn and see a girl doing it my mouth waters andn i want to do it. is that okay? normal? or whatever.
i have a girlfriend
and have never done ANYthings but fantasize about a dude before


EDIT: and also i love the way a cock feels in my hand. sometimes i wish i was girl, is that normal?

vito22andolini
April 26th, 2009, 12:22 AM
yea , it is . you know you could just try it with another guy

optimashprime
April 26th, 2009, 01:27 AM
its normal all guys go though it

zdallasz
April 26th, 2009, 02:27 AM
personally Ive never had any thoughts to do anything with a guy. so i cant give any advice

NeverTooLate
April 26th, 2009, 02:35 AM
i think its normal, most guys go though it

optimashprime
April 26th, 2009, 02:35 AM
personally Ive never had any thoughts to do anything with a guy. so i cant give any advice

then dont spam

Truth
April 26th, 2009, 04:34 AM
......

Stevie J
April 26th, 2009, 05:01 AM
Alright! how about the woman part? like that too?

nick
April 28th, 2009, 03:23 PM
You've asked this in 2 places now I believe.

I would say its unusual to feel as if you want to be a girl. Obviously its not unheard of because some people are transexual and get sex change operations, but I think its sufficiently unusual to say its not normal.

Lots of guys are interested in other guys tackle and would be willing to give head. Obviously some are gay or bi, but others may just be experimenting or curious

david191
May 2nd, 2009, 12:04 AM
I think you should just go for it, it could be fun.

youngbrown7
May 2nd, 2009, 02:18 AM
[QUOTE=Stevie J;498116]But i REALLY wanna give a blowjob. Idk what it is but when i watch porn and see a girl doing it my mouth waters andn i want to do it. is that okay? normal? or whatever.
i have a girlfriend
and have never done ANYthings but fantasize about a dude before

I don't wish i was a girl but im straight and i know what u mean about wanting to give a blow job there is something about it that looks arousing to me. so i know what your talking about. and im also not completely sure if its normal to think like that.

INFERNO
May 2nd, 2009, 02:53 AM
Im like 18 almost and im straight... for the most part. i Love women and ive only been attracted to one male in my life sorta. But i REALLY wanna give a blowjob. Idk what it is but when i watch porn and see a girl doing it my mouth waters andn i want to do it. is that okay? normal? or whatever.
i have a girlfriend
and have never done ANYthings but fantasize about a dude before


EDIT: and also i love the way a cock feels in my hand. sometimes i wish i was girl, is that normal?

The part about liking males or wanting to give a blowjob is normal. Not all males may have such an experience, however, that does not mean it's abnormal. Heter-, bi- and homosexuality are on a continuum, thus you can be heterosexual yet still have slight homosexual fantasies or thoughts.

About wishing to be a girl, why do you sometimes wish that? Is it simply so it's more acceptable to society and/or possibly to you to give a blowjob/handjob and whatnot? Or do you wish to be a girl on occasion for other reasons? Do you ever dress up as a girl or imagine dressing up as a girl or getting a sex-change operation? Also, how long has this been going on for?

HelloWorld123456
May 2nd, 2009, 04:54 AM
since youre 18 yrs old in my opinion then you may be bi since you are almost done in puberty .. maybe you were a ltae developer and your hormones are kind of making you get attracted to boys which that can make you just courious .. well i am straight too but never had fantasises about boys .. or wish to be a girl ..

Maybe it is just a phase and youll get out of it .. but do you feel like wearing a dress ? .. robe .. or something ? .. Like a trans (not to offend) .. cause that might change your sexuality ..

INFERNO
May 2nd, 2009, 10:41 AM
since youre 18 yrs old in my opinion then you may be bi since you are almost done in puberty .. maybe you were a ltae developer and your hormones are kind of making you get attracted to boys which that can make you just courious .. well i am straight too but never had fantasises about boys .. or wish to be a girl ..

Maybe it is just a phase and youll get out of it .. but do you feel like wearing a dress ? .. robe .. or something ? .. Like a trans (not to offend) .. cause that might change your sexuality ..

Bisexuality implies equal attraction to males and females. The OP said he's mostly attracted to females and slightly to males. Being a transvestite does not necessarily equate to a change in sexuality. It equates to a change in behavior.

It is possible to be 3/4 heterosexual and 1/4 homosexual yet not be bisexual. You view sexual orientation on a continuum not simply homo-, hetero- and bisexual all as discontinuous "units". Doing so will inevitably lead to problems.

Stevie J
May 3rd, 2009, 12:07 AM
The girl thing is like: Sometimes i feel lets say theres a party... a girl makes out with a girl... Next day all the dudes are like HELL YEAH *Girls Name* and the girls think nothing of it.
A guy kisses a guy, the guys rip on him and call him names, and the girls all think hes gay. its like girls can get away with more. and more like i just wanna like trade places one day and be a total skank and sleep with everything and anything that moves

nothing serious, my Op was on a day i wasn't too happy, same with my second thread on the topic. and im 99% sure im straight, i just like get REALLY HORNY and my mind goes nuts and i think about well Nuts :P
thanks everybody

INFERNO
May 3rd, 2009, 05:08 AM
The girl thing is like: Sometimes i feel lets say theres a party... a girl makes out with a girl... Next day all the dudes are like HELL YEAH *Girls Name* and the girls think nothing of it.
A guy kisses a guy, the guys rip on him and call him names, and the girls all think hes gay. its like girls can get away with more.

Yes, I agree with this. It's rather dumb for party A to do one thing and get away easily yet party B gets ruined for the same thing when there is the same audience who knows what both parties are doing.

Ladysman
May 3rd, 2009, 12:34 PM
Ive been there but i wouldnt like giving a blow job but i love the feel of getting one