i need some advice...

[katytruthteller]

right well.. i have been friends with this girl for 15 years since first school and recently she got back with her abusive boyfriend and i didn't like it but i stuck by her for her sake then out of the blue she started arguing and she has said some harsh things like " at least i didnt break my suspension for being 23 stone" and " at least i can have kids" we have had such a good friendship but since she met her abusive boyfriend she's been really mean to me what should i do? should i still be friends with her or should i just forget her?

[Skeln]

Well, as for her abusive boyfriend, as long as he's not abusing her then it's alright.

As for your friendship, I suggest that you try to talk to her. just tell her that you don't want to argue and that yopu only want to be her friend and that you want what's best for her. If neede, then I also suggest appologizing if you said anyhting to upset her. Just talk to her and try to stay out of arguements. If it scomes to an arguement, then just don't get involved. There can never be a one-person arguement as long as the person's sane, so just let her cool off if she's argueing.

[katytruthteller]

cheers for that its just really hard to watch her bf cuz he still is abusive to her he's nearly hit me once until she walked back into the room

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

Well what I suggest is that you address this problem with your friend... tell her how you feel. She may not realize she's doing it...and even if she doesn realize that she is doing it...she may not realize how you feel about things.

[katytruthteller]

Thats a fair point ill try that thanks :)

[zdallasz]

errr sounds hard. maby wait for her to apologize or talk to her about this.

[Truth]

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[Skeln]

the freindship isn't worth it.
I argue that. Many people go through tough times, and it temporaraly changes them into a person that they're not. hat's the time when they need friends, and Katy's friend appears to be in one of those situations and so Katy should try to help her out.

[katytruthteller]

heya just to update on this cheers people for the advice i got her to meet up with me the other day and we both talked about it all why we fell out the things we said etc. and we both said sorry our friendship still isn't back to normal but i know that's understandable so thanks for all you said it's all getting back on track now i just have to swallow my pride now and let her still be with her bf until she relises herself and when she does i will be there for her