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nycbestkid
April 24th, 2009, 05:20 PM
when i was young and started puberty i used to get erections to girls but then i had a bad dream and i dont anymore. then i got them to boys and i used to be attracted to them. now when i got to my teenage years i seen female porn and ever since then i get fantasies about the female genatals. but i still get erections when i am around my guy friends. but on day i was on the train and i have seen this lady with cleavage and omg i was thinking about my licking her boobs and i got an erection but its just that why do i get erections about boys how do sexual things but everytime i think of a girl having sex i get horny as well am i growing or am i gay

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Blue63
April 24th, 2009, 06:29 PM
From what I hear you're not gay. You just get turned on by anything sexual, everyone gets erections over the same sex once in while. I wouldn't worry to much about your sexuality during puberty, you have a lot of hormones running through your body that a lot of times can cause you to get erections over nothing at all.

Oblivion
April 24th, 2009, 06:34 PM
Moved to Teen Sexuality

nick
April 24th, 2009, 06:35 PM
Who knows mate, dont believe anyone who reads what you've said and gives you a definite answer. You could be just curious and you could be bi, it doesn't sound as if you're 100% gay.

Dont rush to fit yourself into a category. What does it matter, you're just you. Love yourself for who you are and others will too. Give it time and you'll come to know the answer to your own question. Until then, dont let anyone try to tell you, you can only find it out for yourself

Skeln
April 24th, 2009, 07:20 PM
"Sigh" Here we go again.

To be gay is to be EMOTIONALLY attracted to the same sex. It sounds like you just get turned on by anything sexual, trust me almost everyone does. Also, people get erections at random times during puberty, so yeah there's also the chance of that.

As I said before, being physically attracted to someone does not make you gay!

myko808
April 25th, 2009, 12:00 AM
Dude ur not gay i'. just like you i get erection from girls and guys i guest were very horny and we just need some thing to get off so ur not gay but you could be BI its o.k. to be Bi nothins wrong at lease you still like chicks and probaly your very proub of you manhood which in case guys have dreams of having sex with a guy in which your probaly pround of your manhood of just a dream in which your curiose so yeah dont sweat it normal!! hahahahah!!

nycbestkid
May 2nd, 2009, 06:26 PM
well i know i am not gay because i am to passonate about girls its just that i get erection from my friends when they do sexual stuff but like if i see a pic with a man without his shirt on i dont get horny if i see it with a woman naked and i see her gentals then i get horny