Were are you in 3 years?

[iJoel]

Well, the topic is really what I'm asking you. "Were do you think socially, emotionally and relationship standard will you be in 3 years from now?"

The paths you choose with every second depend upon your future. It is you that chooses were go to next, but lets say you choose all the "correct choices" or all the "wrong choices" where would that make you?

For me, I think I see myself with a great social life, worked for by years of wanting a good social life. I see a guy that smiles at me, that will walk by myself and hold me when I need him to keep warmth. And I see me coming out to my parents and how the struggle it may be with my father.

What about you guys and gals? Just curious :)

[Truth]

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[Archos]

Socially, i see myself being as popular as i am now, fairly in the current 'scene' that i am in, with a few close friends a lots of people i know.

Emotionally, i see myself happier, right now i am having my true happiness stripped away from me because of my age and lack of independence.

Relationship standard, i HOPE i will be in a nice, loving relationship. I say hope because i don't know for sure.

[AllThatIsLeft]

umm socially - probably working, and having good money =] meeting new people every day

emotionally - i don't know i guess stronger, but as i will have to become detached from my job, i could end up beign a little colder.

Relationship - well i just dont see it as i will be moving constantly =\ .. idk

[Triceratops]

Socially: Probably studying a lot with friends and spending lots of time with family. Just like the way it is now.

Emotionally: Fuck knows. I become stronger yet fragile as the years go on. I'll probably have more problems, but I'll be more thick-skinned.

Relationship: I think I'll probably be with a guy I'm very good friends with at the college I plan on going to, but taking it slow.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Socially - I'll be in school, working towards my BA. If I take a gap year from '10-'11 like I'd like, to save up some cash, 2012 will be my junior year of college. Hopefully I'll be at UCSB. If not, I have some other options I'm looking at. Hopefully I'll also have made some friends by then. xP

Emotionally - I think I'll be stronger. I'll have my better half here with me, which I'm really looking forward to. I'll have had three more years to keep working on myself, and I think that will be beneficial. The only real stress that I think is most likely to affect me at that point is probably money. Christy and I will both be in school (although he'll probably take his two years of general ed at a community or junior college, which is cheaper), and health insurance is expensive. We'll both need it, too. I need it to cover treatment for my BPD, and he'll need it to cover treatment for whatever the heck he has that they won't listen to in England. So, that will probably be the main concern for a while. I think we'll make it though, we won't crack under the pressure. :)

Relationship-wise - I'll be with Christy. We'll be married. We'll have our own place. I think we'll be happy together. :)

Oh, and: Teen Sexuality :arrow: Relationships and Dating. It's not so much about dating, it does cover relationships, but it doesn't fit in education/careers either. If this might fit better elsewhere, such as TWPR perhaps, another mod can of course feel free to move it again.

[Gumleaf]

socially - well it will be my first year out of school. i hope to be more open and have somewhat overcome my chronic shyness and be able to meet new people and be friends with them quite easily. that is my wish anyways, in reality, we'll have to see.

emotionally - i hope to be stronger, be able to accept things in my life better. not allow my emotions and thoughts to get the better of me and be able to be strong enough to be able to be the emotionally strong one for my friends, family and girlfriend. but like before, that is my wish, in reality, who knows?

relationship - hopefully my relationship with my current girlfriend ha grown stronger in all ways and we will either be living together already, or planning to live together and also thinking about getting married within the following few years. thats another wishful thought.

[Reality]

Socially: In three years I'll be 19/turning 19, and I'll have just finished Sixth Form (secondary school) with good enough A-Level results and be going to study at a University. I'll be meeting new friends there, and settling into a new environment.. nice and smoothly.

Emotionally: I'll be more confident, and I won't be as fucked up as I am at the moment.

Relationship-wise: I'll probably be still going out with someone from school, or something.

Of course; this is all optimistically speaking. So this is all how I hope stuff turns out. :)

[Patchy]

Socially - I'll be going into uni hopefully with some friends with me. I hope to have a slightly larger circle of closer friends, I hope to also have a proper job to help pay for stuff.

Emotionally - Probably still my same way, maybe a little upset that I'm out in the big bad world instead of school.

Relationship wise - Well I'll be honest I know I won't be with the same girl but I hope I wait around and find the right one for me and someone that loves me the same way I love her.

[Sage]

Socially: I'll have probably found a real group of friends I can confide in.

Emotionally: Probably happier and more easy going.

Relationship-wise: Happily taken or happily avaliable.