Friends with Benefits Situation

[adesiree]

There is this guy that I have been messing around with, but we're not together. We have did everything but had sex. Latley I been wanting to have sex with him but I'm still a virgin. So my question is do you think it's ok to lose your virginity to someone who not your bf? People say that your first time is suppose to be special, but it doesn't seem to bother me if I lose it to him. I don't feel like being in a relationship right now due to the drama involved.By the way I'm 15

[Aηdy]

At 15 you're still pretty young to be losing your virginity. A few people on here have said before that when they grow older they regret losing it to someone who isn't special. Personally I think it's best to lose it to someone you are in a long term relationship with, and someone you love and trust. You only get to lose it once, so it should be special really. There's no 'rush' to have sex or be in a relationship. So by all means have fun, but I think it's best if you wait a while and keep your virginity for someone special :)

[BeautifulSilence]

Andy's post was spot on.

I was 14, not in a relationship, but I was in love. It's been a year and although I don't necessarily regret it, I was quite badly hurt from our "almost" relationship evapourating...

I suggest you wait for someone you truly love and trust. There's nothing saying that you have to be in a relationship, but I believe it would probably be safer emotionally.

[Dale]

Just in case you do amp up the relationship remember to practice safe sex! Really go buy some condoms just in case. If there's anything worse then doing something that you may regret its not doing it the safe way.

[Truth]

Your gonna regret it some day, is all I can say.

[cmilan0]

:cool: No I don't think you should do that. Be careful if you do. But all I have to say is get to know him before you peeps get busy. OKAY!

[Young teen]

I think its a bad idea, but if you want to, who are wesaying you can't? Also, use a condom. If you are in england, you can get them free from the doctor's. They wont ask questions, but if he says "No" , go and say : Fine, i'll go without protection. I thought it would be better to be safe though, and aparently Doctors are supposed to help you....

It should work. I am 14 so havn't asked a doc, nor had sex, and i'm not planning to until the right age, and with a loving partner. Thats probably sounds stupid..........

[Lady_Chaos]

I am 14 so havn't asked a doc, nor had sex, and i'm not planning to until the right age, and with a loving partner. Thats probably sounds stupid..........

Thats not stupid at all =) thats probably the smartest way to handle it =)

[baby-c]

it's up to you what you decide to do but personally i don't think you should have sex with him. it's very likely that when it all ends you will be left hurt. i'm in the same situation as you but i have talked about it with my friends and came to the conclusion that it's better to wait for the right moment and maybe that moment will turn out to be with a different guy, who knows.

[Requin]

Old thread. :locked: