This Feels Messed Up

[A.J.]

My girlfriend of three months usually is with her best friend. Alot of times when we get intamant, my girlfriend invites her friend to join in. It seemed kinda fun but instead of losing my virginity to my girlfriend whom I really care about and wished I had lost it to, my girlfriend had me and her friend have sex while she watched. I feel like this is pretty F*cked up and I just need to know if I'm making to big of a deal about this. I still hangout with her friend and my girlfriend and I are getting along well as usual but I feel disapointed and like this isn't normal.

[Gumleaf]

you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about that. she might be your girlfriend, but thats still no reason to push you into situations you aren't comfortable with. if she cares about you, she'll understand.

[IAMWILL]

Wow this is really fucked up.

If you're having sex with someone other than your girlfriend, its an instant no-no. Really, this is not right or good for your relationship, and it needs to stop. Your 15, this isn't ever acceptable in a relationship, so there is no exception here. If its what you like to do, well, thats personal preference, which i cant unbiasedly influence, but in my opinion its not right. at all.

Simply, if you want to have sex with your GIRLFRIEND, don't have it with someone whos NOT your girlfriend. Its a basic concept, and something you should and need to be able to handle.

[Affliction]

yeh i agree with with will thats messed up only have sex if u want and only with ur girlfriend not one of her random friends