Does make me gay if.......:what

[Need2Know822]

Does it make me gay if:
a) my friend(s) and i "EXPERIMENTED" (the friend wasn't gay either)
b) if i start to have "WEIRD" feelings when I'm around a guy that is gay.
c) if i get horny around naked guys
D) if i for some reason have a fetish for Gay porn ( AWKWARD MY BRO WANTED ME 2 ASK THAT SO IT'S NOT ME!!!!!!!!!! TRUST!!!!!!!!!)
E) If i was molested my a older guy b4 when i was young
F) If i have a wet dream about a guy?????
G) Also,...if i watch LOGO ( the GLBT tv channel) and i like the GAY GUY SHOWS/MOVIES???????

* BUT THE WEIRD THING IS I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND(S) and I like guys but i just have weird feelings!!! at times like one of my friends is gay and we talk/txt each other and he told me he had a CRUSH on me and i told him that I'm not gay. then the next day when i saw him i saw him in a whole different way then the day b4!!!!!! BUT i don't wanna B GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Adamr10]

Idk be bi-sexual? Im really not sure about this, sorry :(

[Need2Know822]

It's ok

[alsoknownas]

Some of those points are shared between gays and straights alike so some points like a,b and c

The one with the TV thing is probably just curiosity I wouldnt go ape on that one :confused:

D and F can happen for no reason.

If your over the molested thing then it shouldnt affect your sexuality

[Need2Know822]

Some of those points are shared between gays and straights alike so some points like a,b and c

The one with the TV thing is probably just curiosity I wouldnt go ape on that one :confused:

D and F can happen for no reason.

If your over the molested thing then it shouldnt affect your sexuality

Thanks, that really helped alot

[Need2Know822]

Thanks but what about E?????? I just really wanna know what I am! ANd what yo u mean by ape that one or something like that?

[alsoknownas]

stredded out.

IE OMG i watched a gay show I must be more bent than a bannana.

Id probably watch something like the too because id be like WTF?

People are interested when someone thinks diferently than they do.
It would be a dull world otherwise.

I'd like to know what makes them think/ feel that way so watching shows with gay's in or GLbt or whatever isnt something that makes you a certain homosexual

With E i dont know how bad its messed with your head.
If it was a traumatic time and you have no closure on it then it could play on your mind.

Other wise it shouldn't affect you.
Its just a bad thing that happend that you got over.

[Ddaarrrreenn]

It's just your hormones. All completely normal and will eventually settle down.

[Need2Know822]

Thanks, I just wanna know cuz i don't wanna b gay at all but these weird feelings,fantasies, all of this stuff is just so confusing and especaily the thing with my friendDOes it make u gay if uve F******* wit a guy B4??????? * SURE HOPE NOT!!!!*****

[Donkey]

a) my friend(s) and i "EXPERIMENTED" (the friend wasn't gay either)
No, perfectly normal. Loads of guys do it...
b) if i start to have "WEIRD" feelings when I'm around a guy that is gay.
No. Hormones.
c) if i get horny around naked guys
As above, hormones released in puberty .
D) if i for some reason have a fetish for Gay porn ( AWKWARD MY BRO WANTED ME 2 ASK THAT SO IT'S NOT ME!!!!!!!!!! TRUST!!!!!!!!!)
Nope. Hormones again.
E) If i was molested my a older guy b4 when i was young
Nothing to do with hormones. But that is abuse, which is not what this topic is about.
F) If i have a wet dream about a guy?????
Not gay.
G) Also,...if i watch LOGO ( the GLBT tv channel) and i like the GAY GUY SHOWS/MOVIES???????
Curious.


You are not gay, IMO, as of now. You may be bisexual or gay in the future... but for now I'd think you'll turn out either straight or bi.

[Need2Know822]

WOw it's that easy????? Just fukin hormones OMG I've been callin my self gay for such a long time now!!!!!!! WOW I'm SO PROUD :) :):):):):) <3 thanks ( NOHOMO on the Heart thing)( I love you man u like saved my life!!!!!!!!!! WOW!!!!!!

[Need2Know822]

------Waht 1 more thing!!! what if i don't like lesbians but i like bi-sexual girls?????? im alright right!!!!

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Not puberty related.

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Donkey]

------Waht 1 more thing!!! what if i don't like lesbians but i like bi-sexual girls?????? im alright right!!!!

You like girls of any type only > Straight
You like girls and guys of any type > Bi
You like guys of any type only > Gay

You like guys. You like girls. You're a teen.

Bi-curious at the moment. As much as I hate the term.

[nick]

Well really your asking us to answer a question that only you can answer.

Point E. definitely not, thats beyond your control, it might effect your reaction to certain things but hopefully not who you really are.

You could be bi from what you've said, there again you could be just curious. Either way there's nothing very unusual in what you've said, its not like you're some kind of freak, so just stay cool and be comfortable. Time will tell what your sexuality really is.

[david191]

It doesn't make you gay, it means you lust guys.

[Silent]

That does not make you gay.

[Effie]

you sound like a gay in denial... sorry not in rude way. Weigh the pros and cons. Do you do any of that with girls? I think we have something in common with the "I don't want to be gay" thing... :( sorreezz *big hug*

[ThUnDeR]

nahh espesially if you have a girlfirend .. you might be bi but you aint gay

[Oscarisme]

Your probably bi, honestly there is nothing wrong with bi peeps they are more accepted than gay peeps.

[chris__robin]

just because he has a girlfriend doesnt automatically make him not gay ... i had a girlfriend when i was 16 but i identify as gay now.

i dont think you should be looking for people to tell you what you are, and you seem to be really just taking peoples opinions here and believing them to be true, like someone tells you youre not gay and *bang* youre not? you just need to give it time, experiment, live youre life, and youll eventually sort out if you like guys or girls or both.
and theres nothing wrong if you turn out to be gay or bi.

[sms22]

I dont think your gay. At most bi. Dont worry dude alot of teens do those things.

[DarkHorse4eva]

a) no
b) bi
c) yes
D) yes
E) idk
F) bi
G) yes

* BUT THE WEIRD THING IS I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND(S) and I like guys but i just have weird feelings!!! at times like one of my friends is gay and we talk/txt each other and he told me he had a CRUSH on me and i told him that I'm not gay. then the next day when i saw him i saw him in a whole different way then the day b4!!!!!! BUT i don't wanna B GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then be bi, if u have a girlfriend u r bi

[eggy101]

Even if you are gay(i dont think you are) whats so bad about it, you live your life in insecurity you need to embrase what ever sexuality you are. You can tell people your straight (the homophobes) and tell people you dont care are bi.

[Green Arrow]

This is going to sound harsh but it's true. No one on here can be for certain what you are, only you will know. We can only make our assumptions on what you're telling us but in the end you’re the one who this is happening to. When you know you’ll know. :)