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lesher
April 22nd, 2009, 12:21 AM
Well, I really like someone right now, and I'm hoping to ask these questions by myself, not by asking someone to ask her

I really want know by asking her if she already got a boyfriend or someone she likes... But I can't and shouldn't ask that question straightforward, right? Can someone gives me tips about this?

I really want to ask, but I'm really afraid that gonna make some "awkward" feeling between us later on... Btw, she still doesn't know if I liked her

BuryYourFlame
April 22nd, 2009, 12:24 AM
your best bet would to be just start a conversation with her or something, and after you have been talking for a while, asking questions etc. just say something like: "so who do you like at the moment?". i cant think of anything else right now sorry.

lesher
April 22nd, 2009, 01:23 AM
Hey, that could help, thanks so much! :D

Need some more preparation though

BuryYourFlame
April 22nd, 2009, 01:29 AM
yes, preparation can help, but dont wait too long lol, otherwise she might get a boyfriend (if she is single now).

lesher
April 22nd, 2009, 11:35 AM
dont wait too long
Yeah, you're absolutely right! But I certainly need more back-up plans...

This is my problem if I;m about to execute your plan:
- Okay, consider that I'm not so shy. I still can't talk to her because I rarely seen her, even if I do, it's only around 2-5 minutes, and then she gotta go home/somewhere/etc.
- She usually tends to hang out with her group/crowds. I can't just ask her to get out from there by saying "I need to talk to you....", right?

And also, your tips however, do require more talk-time, right?
But I really still do appreciate your plan!!

BuryYourFlame
April 25th, 2009, 01:30 AM
hm, i think the best thing to do here would to be getting to know her more. if you only get to talk to her for about 5 minutes at a time, im guessing that you dont exactly know much about her. to get to know her more, just try taking it gradually, say random "hi"s etc. when you pass her at school or something :)