View Full Version : Experomenting or something?
TDBRLA
April 21st, 2009, 05:49 PM
Is it common? I heard of it but what is it? *back to 1st question:P and is it wrong, right, or 'in-between'
Sceneboy612
April 21st, 2009, 05:58 PM
"Experimenting"- If it is what i am guessing you want to know is when two people or more of the same sex try out sexual things, but keep it physical, and lack the emotional feelings between the two.
Experimenting could be anything from showing each others genitals, to having sex.
There is nothing wrong about experimenting, unless you are currently in a relationship... Experimenting is just something that some teen boys and teen girls do mainly based on curiosity.
byee
April 21st, 2009, 07:40 PM
You have to decide what's OK for you. But, what you might want to take into consideration is what happens afterwards. That's the point of the experiment, afterall, the results, the 'after'. Most focus on the 'During'.
So, it might be a good idea to get past just the experience (or the excitement or anticipation of the experience) and consider what you're likely to feel (and do) with the result. If you do *it* and don't like it, no problem, you've gotten it out of your system and have satisfied your curiosity. But, what happens if you like it? People who try *something* and like it are more likely to repeat it. Are you OK with that? Will that fit into your feelings about yourself? Are you prepared for the consequences of doing something new? Sometimes that's Ok, sometimes not. You might want to think about that beforehand.
People often give themselves permission to do things they're not totally comfortable with really as a justification to suspend judgement and just do *it, the urge seems uncontrollable. But, there are risks involved which optimally should be taken into account. That way, whatever the *experiment* is can have a better chance of yielding valid results, which is the point in the first place.
Think about more than your own curiosity.
optimashprime
April 25th, 2009, 01:48 AM
its normal everyone will do it
ive done it
jgibbsd
April 25th, 2009, 01:54 AM
Same As Above:
"Experimenting"- If it is what i am guessing you want to know is when two people or more of the same sex try out sexual things, but keep it physical, and lack the emotional feelings between the two.
Experimenting could be anything from showing each others genitals, to having sex.
There is nothing wrong about experimenting, unless you are currently in a relationship... Experimenting is just something that some teen boys and teen girls do mainly based on curiosity.
optimashprime
April 25th, 2009, 01:58 AM
why did u repost the same thing
keithp318
April 25th, 2009, 10:06 AM
why did u repost the same thing
Because he wanted to get an easy post
marktheman
April 26th, 2009, 09:28 AM
I experiment with my best friend. We do it cuz its fun and it feels good. I dont see anything wrong with it.
ezduzit323
April 26th, 2009, 08:22 PM
with same sex experimenting, i think it happens more than people admit.
cman boy
April 27th, 2009, 02:02 PM
iv done it with 4 friends about 20 timesand
were all straight guys and we love it
xian
April 29th, 2009, 02:25 PM
there is nothing wrong, but some may see it as gay, usually experimenting just involves circle jerking.. but some think other wise.
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