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Suzzzysuz
April 21st, 2009, 11:23 AM
ok, yesterday, when i went to the bathroom at school, i heard something in the stall next to me. when i looked under, i saw my 2 best friends shoes.
when i looked up, i saw the 2 of them fingering each other :eek:

they looked down, saw my head, looked scared for a second, then saw it was me. one of them told me to meet her after school.
when i went and talked to her, she told me that they were going to get together and 'do some stuff' Saturday night, and she invited me.

now is were im really confused. part of me is creeped out from seeing my friends like this, but at the same time a really do wanna go.

is this in any way normal? what should i do?:confused::(

lilthinker
April 21st, 2009, 11:54 AM
if u feel uncomfortable dont go and it is in away normal because at my school in music most of the boys in my class go in these room/cupboard fings we have and start playin wid eathothers dicks and stuff

BeautifulSilence
April 21st, 2009, 03:54 PM
Well, experimentation is supposedly a normal part of being adolescent. However, you should make sure that your friends are aware that you aren't certain on how you feel about their situation. This way, if you decide to go along, they shouldn't force you into anything.

The most important thing is that you only do what you are comfortable with and don't let them pressure you into something you don't feel right doing.

You need to take time and think about whether you want to go on Saturday - we can't do that for you. But you should know that opinions on "normal" differ from person to person.

Seeing how this is more of a question about sexuality, moved from P101 to Sexuality.

nick
April 21st, 2009, 04:31 PM
You must make your mind up about what you feel comfortable with, but to be honest, I would leave them too it, it doesn't sound as if you're really convinced you want to be doing this.

TDBRLA
April 21st, 2009, 05:41 PM
Well, experimentation is supposedly a normal part of being adolescent. However, you should make sure that your friends are aware that you aren't certain on how you feel about their situation. This way, if you decide to go along, they shouldn't force you into anything.

The most important thing is that you only do what you are comfortable with and don't let them pressure you into something you don't feel right doing.

You need to take time and think about whether you want to go on Saturday - we can't do that for you. But you should know that opinions on "normal" differ from person to person.

Seeing how this is more of a question about sexuality, moved from P101 to Sexuality.
Is 'experimentation' common?

lamboman43
April 21st, 2009, 05:59 PM
Experimentation is fairly common. I know lots of people that experiment.

Young teen
April 27th, 2009, 03:59 AM
That must have been freaky!!!! But yeah, just make sure if you go you wash your hands and anything you use before and after, and like most of the above said, Dont let them pressure you into anything.

katytruthteller
April 27th, 2009, 04:48 AM
that sounds like a really uncomfortable situation but as long as u do feel ok with ur decision then go 4 it dont do anythin u dnt feel rite doin

ThUnDeR
May 24th, 2009, 09:51 PM
thats wierd hahaha