The "Friend Zone"

[Blue63]

This is more of a question for girls but everyone is open to take a shot at it.

We all have those people that we think are just our good friend but how much does it take for a girl to notice that a guy could be much more than friends? Just flirting or really coming out and telling her how you feel.

I feel I have been stuck in the friend zone for some time and I'm just curious what it's going to take to burst out of it and maybe sweep her off her feet. I mean I don't really have a friend zone, by nature I kind of look at everyone to see if there could be a chance for a "more than friends" relationship. Do girls do this too or are they generally a bit more focused on groups of people?

Anyway let me know, thanks everyone!

[byee]

Well, it's important to remember that sometimes, there isn't anything you can actually do to move out of the 'friend zone' b/c that is partially determined by her feelings. And although as a friend I suppose you influence that, there's also that part that you have no control over, no matter how hard you might want it and how hard you try. Her feelings result also form things you have no influence over.

So, you can either come right out and tell her how you feel and what you'd like, see what she says. Or, you can continue to enjoy being a good friend, and also realize that friendships grow and develop and evolve, sometimes into really, really good friendships, and sometimes even *more*. Regardless of what she may or may not feel right now.

[Gahg]

sorry for my bad typing half asleep here :P.

anyways, i hate to be the barer of bad news...but hostly if you are in the friendzone...give up once you are in there you preaty much done for. and trust me you dont want to wast most of your life on one girl..(if you find the right one and you start dating you start to really like her...thats not a wast) but what im trying to say is when you get into the friendzone theres not much you can really do to change that you can come out and just spill you guts infront of you friend even say the dreaded 4 letter word...love.. and still she will view you as a friend...no matter what

[Blue63]

Ok thanks guys, yeah I've pretty much realized be glad were friends and move on and hopefully find someone else! Thanks for the advice!