i fancy my friend

[lilthinker]

:what: me and this guy have been friends since we were babies and he keeps flirting with me and i really like him and we really get on well. he always says he misses me and stuff but i dont know if he is still goin out with his girlfriend and if he likes me like that also i have never had a boyfriend and i am kinda tomboyish

he also sed he watchs videos of us together playin and hangin out

[Viral Death]

I think he misses you and I think he loves you a lot

[lilthinker]

i dont know how to tell him though cuz im really scared that it will mess up our friendship plus our mums r friends

[JAMES-]

if u fancy ur friend then just go for it. even if it was just a misunderstanding then he knows that u like it which may even increase your chances eventually.

[BuryYourFlame]

first, before you do anything, ask his 'girlfriend', not him, whether they are still going out, im not saying he is like that...it is just, if he sorta likes both of you...then put on the spot...we will be thinking in the short term...therefore say he isn't still going out with her.

It is good that you acknowledge that going out with him could possibly be very bad for your friendship if things go wrong. because you already know this, i will just say: do what you feel is right, if you honestly think things will work out, then go for it :)

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Not puberty related.

Girls Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[lilthinker]

i dont know his girlfriend or any of his friends

[jack straw]

well, you seem like you like him, and he likes you; BUT earlier posts are right, you should confirm that he IS single. that could cause some tension IF he is still going out with his girlfriend, and she was to find out...

But If he is single, I'd recommend that you make a move, and take it slow. If things are rushed, it almost definately wont work out well. my first(and sadly last) girlfriend and I went a little to far a little to fast...
Make sure you are both sure from the start what you want from the relationship. Keep nothing from eachother, and I wish you luck!

[lilthinker]

aww fanx but but i dunno i might ask him if he wants 2 hang out sometym and take it from der

[lilthinker]

i was talkin 2 my cousin hes 2 yrs young than me and he jus broke up wid his best mate and now she hates him

[BuryYourFlame]

yeh, that often happens with friends who go out if it doesn't work out. this is where it gets tricky...

you and only you need to make this judgment on whether you think that this could ruin your relationship if this doesn't work out...

best of luck :)

[lilthinker]

but then ive know him 14yrs my cousin knew his best mate 1yr or 2

[Tubbsyclone]

not ganna lie ur friendship could be screwed up, but if guys r really good friends then it should b fine. also the guy really likes u make sure he doesnt have a gf then ask him out. b direct cus he might not know what u mean if u say u want 2 hang out.

[lilthinker]

iyte

[Dragonite]

tell him how you feel and he might just feel the same way.

[lilthinker]

i got really angry last night about somin total different 2 do wid my friend and nearly called the boy but i didnt

[lilthinker]

this is now over this chat cuz i dont like him and my maets twin n him r dating

[kyle95]

i don't suspect that's the end of this saga. you've known each far to long to hold grudges. perhaps you mistook is playfulness for something more. if he's playful now, there will come a time when he'll actually take notice of you. so don't write him off yet.

[IAMWILL]

Kyle gave good advice, but this thread is old and it seems the question has been answered and the conversation ended, so :locked: