Girls cause drama for me

[Lifeguard18]

Title says it all and read please. For a few weeks now people been wanting me to go out with a girl. It felt like I was being forced. We went out in fifth grade and broke up and turnded ugly. That's all. Now since that in 9th grade we are friends again and she had feelings. Totally not. Maybe. And so her friend told me you don't know her as much as u do. She was right. And turned into a big mess so on and so on. So I asked we out she said no we should wait. And now since she said no everyone wanted me to go with another girl. The girl who said no said I should go out with her and other friends said it too. I'm like OMFG. And anoter big mess for about three hours. And now I don't want a relationship with girls for a LONG while. I may just give up girls and date guys now because of all the drama those two gals gave me. There is a guy in my school who is gay and everyone knows it. I talk to him on myyearbook slot and he seems kool as hell. I want to hold him so bad. But only one person know that I'm bi. I am planning to tell more peeps and Monday after spring break. He's one grade above me and same age and same school. Once I tell more peeps I'll try to ask him. So tell me what you think and give me advice. Thanks.

[byee]

Girls cause drama. Period. For everyone. Forever. Even with eachother, there's drama. It's a part of their charm. Or curse. You'll get used to it, but then again, probably not. But, fear not. You're not alone. If that's a consolation.

I think the drama eases a bit as you get older. There's ways around it, just let people know you don't do drama, you don't respond to it, and make sure you stick to that: Don't respond to the drama. Just look at it, as you would other things you hold in utter contempt. Like raw oysters or pop quizzes.

Guys tend to not be as dramatic, but let's face it, we have our moments, too. These moments can be exacerbated by romantic involvment, so your plan of being with a guy probably would work only until there was romance.

That's the problem, it's romance you see. Love makes you nuts, regardless of the gender. So, the best thing you can do is develop a plan to deal with it and minimize it's effects. Or join a monastery.

[Truth]

I like the drama girls cause, it either makes you closer or farther apart, it also causes you to learn more about eachother, in a good or bad way. And Sam's right, a guy would'nt be less dramatic, tbh. It's not just girls, it's everyone.

[Gabriel Y.]

well i hate to say it but guys can cause just as much (if not more) drama as girls can :) Though most guys would rather not show how they're feeling, especially in a relationship when it gets messy. Dating guys would probably result in about the same amount of drama in high school especially since u havent come out yet. Also gay guys/girls have to worry about 2 things. 1. does he/she like me and 2. is he/she gay? Its a good thing u know he is gay, but theres no reason to tell anyone that you dont want to. If you want to, go out with him. Keeping it a secret would be hard (no pun intended) but as long as you have that one person to talk with about him, you should be fine ^^ Good luck with whatevr happens!

[nick]

well i hate to say it but guys can cause just as much (if not more) drama as girls can
Oh I dont know, I mean if 2 guys arrive at a party wearing the same shirt thats a joke, but 2 girls in the same dress thats a war!

Anyway AppleFanBoy, good luck if you're coming out to a few more people this week, hope that goes well for you. And if you want to try chatting up the other guy in your school well why not, good luck with that too.