Whats wrong with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[spanky]

OKay i dont know. I just want too scream or hit something really bad just too let all my anger out. im liked by alot of people but my brother latley has been making fun of me calling me fat and its starting too get too me and like OH MY GOD! I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TOO SAY! he hit me and i punched him back and whent in my room and out of no where started crying. Then i decided too come on here .... i dont cry hardly ever.. this is just idk. I have alot of anger and i need a way too get it out! this is driving me crazy, idk if i need advice or if i just want too get it out of my system! GOD IM SO PISSED AND UPSET AND I DONT EVEN KNOW WHY!

[byee]

Awwww.....poor Spanky. I'm sorry your bro is getting on your case. Here's a brownie, they're beloved by all.

I think you need to tell your brother to stop telling you *whatever* it is that's upsetting you. Say it in a way that shows you mean business, something like "Listen, you can no longer say that to me, do you understand?"

You'd be surprised what a little appropriate self assertion (but not threats!) can do. For added emphasis, tell your folks, too, so they can intervene with him so he gets the clear message that he needs to stop.

*Hands Spanky a fresh, warm brownie*

[spanky]

Haha im all better now, idk i just got all upset out of nowhere that normally never happens, first time since like 5 years. :)

[optimashprime]

wow i know the feeling
but i have learned to control my anger because i can punch realy hard and i know alot of ways to hurt people

[cool person]

It sounds like you are going through a rough time, to say the least. My suggestion to you is to seek proffesional help. I know it can be scary and embarrasing, but it really is the best way to not only figure out what (if anything) is up and get real help for it. You don't need to do anything to drastic, just make an appointment with A shrink or a therapist. They can teach you possitive methods to cope with your anger and can possibly help you change family dinamics that could be at the root of some of your problems.

Best of luck,
cool person :eek:

[Triceratops]

There is nothing wrong with you, things are just getting to you badly.

That's very mean of your brother, have you told your parents about this? If so, please tell them as they can sort it out.

Everyone feels like this at times! Try letting your anger out in a harmless, positive way such as (I know it sound silly but meh) punching a pillow or teddy bear, take a walk, talk to a friend or close family member or do any form exercise. It helps a bunch.

[Sceneboy612]

There is nothing wrong with you, things are just getting to you badly.

That's very mean of your brother, have you told your parents about this? If so, please tell them as they can sort it out.

Everyone feels like this at times! Try letting your anger out in a harmless, positive way such as (I know it sound silly but meh) punching a pillow or teddy bear, take a walk, talk to a friend or close family member or do any form exercise. It helps a bunch.


I agree 100% with her, but some ways that i escape from life is bikeing... or doing anything physical that you enjoy. Actually, doing anything physical is a good way to channel you emotions =]

[Beautiful Obsession]

wen ur feeling angry do something entertaining. n ders nuffin wrong wiv cryin now and thn.. im ALWAYS doin it.. it calms me down:D xxx

[lamboman43]

wen ur feeling angry do something entertaining. n ders nuffin wrong wiv cryin now and thn.. im ALWAYS doin it.. it calms me down:D xxx

Could you repost that in English please? Kind of hard to read.

[spanky]

Thanks everyone :)

[INFERNO]

wen ur feeling angry do something entertaining. n ders nuffin wrong wiv cryin now and thn.. im ALWAYS doin it.. it calms me down:D xxx

Whenever I have to try and decipher what someone's post says due to its horrid English, I'd much rather stop and criticize them in the hopes they can post properly.

If you don't consider yourself fat and are happy with how you are, then I don't understand why you get sad over petty name-calling. It does seem rather humourous if you call someone fat and they throw a temper tantrum then run in the room and cry.

Either tell the parents, which may or may not work, or you grow some skin for such silly name-calling. Reacting how you did later in life to similar situations will not get you very far.

[spanky]

...... dude, it wasnt just by calling me fat im under alot of stress.. I punched him for calling me fat that settled it THEN I WALKED (not stormed) into my room then i was sitting there then i felt bad for hitting him and everything then i was thinking about tons of stuff like "why am i so upset?" "will i make it too 9th grade?" "what is going to happen when i go to court" i mostley posted this just to know why am i under so much stress and have alot of anger, so next time before you go about posting that im just some big baby that gets mad over name calling check your post first okay? im not just some big fucking baby like that, im mad about many things.. And my little bro fucking with me is at the bottom, ....asshole.

[INFERNO]

...... dude, it wasnt just by calling me fat im under alot of stress.. I punched him for calling me fat that settled it THEN I WALKED (not stormed) into my room then i was sitting there then i felt bad for hitting him and everything then i was thinking about tons of stuff like "why am i so upset?" "will i make it too 9th grade?" "what is going to happen when i go to court" i mostley posted this just to know why am i under so much stress and have alot of anger, so next time before you go about posting that im just some big baby that gets mad over name calling check your post first okay? im not just some big fucking baby like that, im mad about many things.. And my little bro fucking with me is at the bottom, ....asshole.

First, there is no need for any name-calling whatsoever. If you wish to keep that up, you will not get far in life with calling someone who disagrees with something or says something incorrect an asshole. So, can you quit with that? Much appreciated.

Second, I said to not react in such a way that you did for later on in life. You never posted anything in this thread until now stating you were thinking about many other things and angry with many things at that time. If you do not post the background information, how are VT'ers on here who do not know you supposed to know any of that?

[spanky]

Because you annoy me, and are just like oprahghost

[INFERNO]

Because you annoy me, and are just like oprahghost

I asked kindly, and I'll ask kindly for this: please stop with the irrelevant talk and personal attacks. You didn't like it when it happened to you, I apologized and stopped, so you can show the same respect and courtesy, and do the same for me.

[cool person]

I asked kindly, and I'll ask kindly for this: please stop with the irrelevant talk and personal attacks. You didn't like it when it happened to you, I apologized and stopped, so you can show the same respect and courtesy, and do the same for me.

How did he respond to that?

[INFERNO]

How did he respond to that?

He hasn't.

[spanky]

I asked kindly, and I'll ask kindly for this: please stop with the irrelevant talk and personal attacks. You didn't like it when it happened to you, I apologized and stopped, so you can show the same respect and courtesy, and do the same for me.


I apologize, I was irritated before i read your post then once i saw your post i was even more mad, I apologize. And you are not like Oprahghost, He was calling me stuff, anyways sorry. it wont happen again

~spanky



PS: No hard feelings?

[INFERNO]

I apologize, I was irritated before i read your post then once i saw your post i was even more mad, I apologize. And you are not like Oprahghost, He was calling me stuff, anyways sorry. it wont happen again

~spanky



PS: No hard feelings?

Thank you for the apology, no hard feelings. As it's said, kiss and make up (no, I'm not going to kiss you but you get the idea :lol: ).

[spanky]

Thank you for the apology, no hard feelings. As it's said, kiss and make up (no, I'm not going to kiss you but you get the idea :lol: ).


:) i was just kinda mad.

[Specter]

Tell your parents. ;)

[Donkey]

Siblings are annoying. But I think your anger could be contained more, no need for violence in any situation. You could browse the internet for some anger management methods.

One that has helped me is holding your breath, count to four, and breathe out. Count to four again, then hold your breath, count to four, breathe out. etc.

It works surprisingly well. Next time you're angry, try it ;)