Ladies, just a quick question... (Please!)

[jack straw]

I need your opnion on a few things;

Describe your perfect partener; Is he smart, funny, romantic, etc... elaborate on what you look for in a person.


I dont understand what I'm doing wrong; Am I being to cautious? When with girls I do tend to get nervous, and carefully (maby to carefully) think about whatever I'm going to say. I respect women, and cant stand the bastards who treat their girlfriends like shit, always cheating on them and not careing about them. I'm not like that; I care about my friends, and The few who seem to actually take an intrest in me know I would do anything for them.

What gets your attention when it comes to guys? I think that if girls were to give me a chance, they would see that i'm not just a babbling idiot, and that there is a really good person inside.

Any adivce would be greatly appreciated.

[lilthinker]

i lyk guys hu r funny and joke around alot but kinda have that ghetto/goon/gangsta style wid drop downs, bandana wid a gd colour end (hood) fuck grey city its all bout green, black and purple

[Destiny&Desire]

Heyy

You sound like you're doing nothing wrong. If you like a girl then you should just talk to her normally, as if she were a friend, so that you can establish a basic relationship first. Maybe you're trying too hard to impress girls? Not implying that you are, but maybe because you get nervous it gives the girls a slightly different impression from what you want them to see. Not saying that you shouldn't think before you speak, though. Just act confident around girls, even if you aren't, because confidence is usually something that all girls look for.

And.. as for me, I'd like a guy if he can make me smile, and will support me if I need him =]

[jack straw]

Heyy

You sound like you're doing nothing wrong. If you like a girl then you should just talk to her normally, as if she were a friend, so that you can establish a basic relationship first. Maybe you're trying too hard to impress girls? Not implying that you are, but maybe because you get nervous it gives the girls a slightly different impression from what you want them to see. Not saying that you shouldn't think before you speak, though. Just act confident around girls, even if you aren't, because confidence is usually something that all girls look for.

And.. as for me, I'd like a guy if he can make me smile, and will support me if I need him =]

Thank's!
Confidence usually isn't a problem for me, except when It comes to talking to girls, or speaking infront of a crowd. I could say something 1,000 times, but when I try and talk to a girl, I freeze and start to screw up :whoops:.

I can try to make you smile, but I Know that I will always be there for support. I Would take a bullet for a friend; I'd do nearly anything for my friends. They know they can come to me for help with anything, weather it be they just need a shoulder to cry on, or they need, well, anything.

[Faroz]

Hang out with girls more often you'll get the hang of it it becomes easier when you have a girl whose your friend, not a girlfriend. How I did it was my friend had already been hanging out with girls then I just joined in. Plus everything you say should come out naturally not something you've thought about 100 times before saying.

[pumpkinbutt69]

To be totally honest it sucks but it is true that nice guys finish last. For some reason alot of women have it in their head that if a man is crude and macho then he's a real man. Women are attracted to the testorene in men. Just just guys are attracted to the hormone level of women. But if you are charming and can make a girl laugh you'll find you will get alot more feedback. If you can brighten a womans/girls day with something they find funny then you are making a positive connection with them and they will take notice to that. Key thing to always remember if a girl hits you(in a joking like way) then she likes. Maybe not just yet in dating scene likes you but it's definetly there. If you show girls that you apprieciant them but can also have a good time more women will be likely to respond.

Hope you all have a beautiful day!