How to fix a broken Trust

[ebony15]

Okay, this is just great... i feel terrible.

I was in a relationship for two months...
The guy i really fell in love with is ignoring me now because he is mad at me.. because I broke his trust.

He told me before, that i was the best...and he wasnt gonna find a new girl.
He told me how different i was and how special i was to him.
He told me how i changed him . . .[truth]

Anyways, one night I was supposed to go where we usually meet.
But my problem is, i didnt really want to see him since i was leaving the next day. I'm a new girl, i transferred to this school in a different city. So after i graduate i'm going back Home ...
So I felt bad about seeing him that night since it was our last.


....There's this other guy who was in love with me, and so many times already he wanted to ask me out.
He was riding a motor cycle that same night and i had to go deliver this book that my grandmother sent for Mrs. Barker.
Since i knew that Leo wasnt there at our meeting place yet, i asked the other guy if he could give me a ride so i could deliver the Cook Book.

But it turned out that Mrs. barker was already in Bed.
So this guy toured me around the city. and oh my gosh, it was sooo fun! :yes:

But something awaits me ... and i still neeeded to see him anyway so might as well get it over with...

So I said goodnight to the other guy...I gave him a handshake :)

I went to meet my guy and he was on the computer playing games.
But the thing is..i Lied ...when he asked me where i was...

I never lied to him.. and that was just the first time..

He did alot of lying and even though i got mad, I FORGAVE him...

but now look. . . look at him... he doesnt want to trust me..
I didnt do anything wrong ..i didnt cheat on him...:mad:

I just feel terrible cuz he wont talk to me on yahoo msnger
cuz he wants to talk to me when i get back.

BUT WHAT IF I DONT? ...

c'mon guys, what can you say...

the problem with this dude is when i explain...HE DOESNT GET IT..HE MISINTERPRETS EVERYTHING I SAY..
and whenever I say that I'll tell you in Person...HE FORCES ME to TELL HIM RIGHT AWAY..

grrrrrrr!:mad:

i cant believe this... i've been so patient with him!

[Truth]

Tbh, only you can gain trust. No one else can help, you know your friend. It's hard.. And a long job, but worth it. =P

[byee]

Ebony, you might want to ask yourself what it is you like about this guy. Sounds like you're used to him, accustomed to having him around, but the actual *stuff* btw'n you might not be that great. If you feel you cannot trust HIM enough to tell him the truth you're really saying something about your feelings about him.

People in good, loving relationships know eachother well enough and are secure enough with them (and themselves) to naturally trust their partners, even when they're out of sight. Or doing casual things with people of the opposite gender.

Maybe it's time to reevaluate your committment here, and let go.

[ebony15]

I am
honest with Leo. And we had a great relationship. we trusted each other..
but there is no such perfect relationship though..

[STAYING_STRONG4HIM]

Relationships are so confusing. I understand the trust thing you are talking about. I have had that with my boyfriend...The best thing to do is just to be honest and open with each other and if they tell you something that they only want to share with YOU...then as long as it is not hurting them then you should keep it between the two of you....I don't know if that helped any or not....but I hope it did...