View Full Version : Am I bi?
Exxdos
April 17th, 2009, 11:40 PM
I'm new here so I hope I'm not posting something others havent, but I have a question that I really haven't been able to ask any of my friends.
When I masturbate (I'm 13) I think of my guys friends naked and about masturbating with/to them. Sometimes I look at shirtless pics of guys too, not when I'm j/o though. But basically I'm wondering if I'd be counted as bi, cause like if I think about having sex with a guy it seems disgusting to me (not that I have anything against gays) but I've always wanted to j/o with other guys. I also have only ever liked girls, but thinking about guys helps me get better orgasms. And, I've only ever identified as straight and I know I'd never hae sex with a guy but is wanting to j/o a guy bi/gay?
Sceneboy612
April 17th, 2009, 11:43 PM
i would identify you as bi-curious at the time... its raging teen hormones getting the better of you..
optimashprime
April 17th, 2009, 11:43 PM
i think you are curious more than gay i think most people go though that stage as well but only you know if you bi because if you get turned on by guys and you want to do things i would say bi
but at the moment i think your curious borderline bi
ThUnDeR
May 24th, 2009, 09:18 PM
your prob just curious if your not attracted mentally to guys but you are phissicaly then you are just courious
Spunky
May 25th, 2009, 12:05 AM
I would say you are more bi courious then bi. all it is that your mind just wants to experiment with differnt things. and only you really know what you are.
delete.please
May 25th, 2009, 02:12 AM
Yeah I think you need some sort of emotional attraction in addition to physical attraction to guys to be considered bi.
NeverTooLate
May 25th, 2009, 02:25 AM
i would say ur bi-curious
Wonder.
May 25th, 2009, 02:32 AM
Yeah I think you need some sort of emotional attraction in addition to physical attraction to guys to be considered bi.
This is true but also think really hard. Do you believe you are and do you want to be bi?
delete.please
May 25th, 2009, 02:47 AM
But it's not really a choice :what:
Wonder.
May 25th, 2009, 02:50 AM
But it's not really a choice :what:
True but I'm not really sure how to explain what I meant soo...
L
May 25th, 2009, 06:25 AM
your inbetween bi and straight, (like me actually...) but if i had to call you one or the other i'd say straight, loads of friends DO masterbate togther although on eachother i assume not as much. it dosent mean their bi, (by my standards) so you should be ok. not that being bi is a bad thing...
charlie w
May 25th, 2009, 11:05 AM
i'd blame hormones in your case
The Joker
May 25th, 2009, 02:54 PM
Don't change your sexuality at 13. Take a few years to figure it out.
Hank Hill
October 5th, 2009, 09:08 PM
I don't think your bi. Being bi or gay means you have physical and emotional feelings for other people of the same sex. Unless you really want to ask a guy out, or have strong feelings for one, i wouldn't say ur bi.
But whats wrong with being bi? I am and i have a girlfriend, but like other guys too. whats so wrong with it? :)
DJthekid
October 5th, 2009, 09:19 PM
i think your just curious thats all
Darkened-Inferno
October 5th, 2009, 09:40 PM
I personally think it's just curiousity. There's a time in life when we're all like that, so don't worry. I guess you could be considered bi if you were attracted emotionally to both guys and girls though.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
October 6th, 2009, 02:54 AM
Please don't bump old threads, this one was over 4 months old.
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