Help on myself, and a friend...

[TaLawlzyLawlz]

Okay. There are a lot of girls I like, but each one of them is like, something I can't have. There's always some reason why I tell myself why I can't or shouldn't go out with them.
S - She works at a grocery store near me. Older by like, +4 years. And I don't think she knows me. :o

P - In my class. Probably closest to her. I like her, and I /think/ she likes me, but, recently my friend who's a girl has started liking her, and it's making me REALLY awkward and self-conscious around her. D:

M - Umm. Don't know her well. She goes to my school. But, her friend yelled at me one time, because she thought I was following her, which honest to god I wasn't.

C - Lives nowhere near me. We met online, butuhh, I like her a lot. She supposedly likes me, but won't date me 'cause she's never met me before.

SGIDK - Some girl I don't know. She's really pretty, and goes to my school. Don't even know her name. Lmao.

Butumm, can someone tell me what to do or say? I say weird things when I'm nervous, and I get nervous around them, so please help. Thanks. :]

Anduhh, problem two. I know this will probably sound hypocritical, seeing as I like and have dated people online too, but I feel like my best friend (who's a girl) is a major w****. She dates people online, and well as people in real life, and sometimes at the same time. Not only do I think cheating is horrible, she dates like, old people. Like, 9 times outta 10 they're at least +5 years older than her. She's thirteen, as am I, and she dates anywhere from 15 - 30. I think that's actually, truly disgusting. I'm like, 99% sure some of them are pedophiles, not to be mean or judgmental, but really. Any ideas on this? I confronted her about it before, and she just shrugs it off, or thinks I'm making a personal attack on her. I dunno. Help with ideas. Thanks. ^^;

[IAMWILL]

Well, here goes.

Starting a new relationship can be a great but scary thing. Key one, you have to start as friends, and work your way up. To somewhat "iron out" your choices: S) Don't even bother. P) Your best choice, I'll explain. H) You already made a bad impression, and that's hard to recover from. SGIDK) Not happening until you build up enough courage to meet her.

Now, as for P, this is your best shot. When other guys like the same girl as you, it gets very annoying, but I knows some ways to win her over. When talking to P, be very nice, gentle, but don't be a suck up. Don't try to be anything or anyone else, just be yourself and stay calm. If the other guy is annoying you, just stay calm and if he says something like "Your such a loser dude she's mine" or "why do you even like her?!" just say something calm like "Thats cool" and "Because I do" and walk away. All this other boy would be trying to accomplish is creating a false rumor to attempt to make himself look good, or trying to demean you by lying. Any good girl would not go for this guy. If any rumors do start though, just ignore them and simply deny it if anyone asks. Now even though none of this has happened yet as it appears, it often does when stuff like this arises.

Moving on, ya... you are being somewhat of a hypocrite. Sometimes you just have problems with people, and you have to accept that, no matter what. If its not meant to be, its not meant to be. Just ignore it, you'll be fine.

Hope I helped ya, I'm always glad too. -Will