Help me with this situation please...

[vector]

Ok so im gay and recently i think im falling in love with my teacher. He really nice and always care for the student. I know this is wrong but i cant control it. I really want to stop liking him and move on but it seem like i can't. I think i need some advice. Since there only 2 month before i go onto high school i want to start off fresh and having to deal with this student having a crush on teacher is hard for me :( so can anyone give me some advice?

[nick]

Yes, but probably not what you're hoping for.

My advice is clear, keep whatever feelings you have for you teacher strictly to yourself and under no circumstances do anything to reveal them or act upon them.

As a UK person I dont entirely understand the US school system but I believe if you have not yet gone into high school that makes you around 15 (same as me) at the most. Having a relationship with a teacher would make him into a criminal and if found out would certainly land him in prison. So even if he fancies you back, which is probably wishful thinking, it would be unfair of you to put him at that risk.

Let it go, its probably just a sort of crush thing, wait for someone nearer to your own age.

[vector]

Yes, but probably not what you're hoping for.

My advice is clear, keep whatever feelings you have for you teacher strictly to yourself and under no circumstances do anything to reveal them or act upon them.

As a UK person I dont entirely understand the US school system but I believe if you have not yet gone into high school that makes you around 15 (same as me) at the most. Having a relationship with a teacher would make him into a criminal and if found out would certainly land him in prison. So even if he fancies you back, which is probably wishful thinking, it would be unfair of you to put him at that risk.

Let it go, its probably just a sort of crush thing, wait for someone nearer to your own age.

Yes i thought about this option. I think my friend also know because when i like someone i will blush every time i see the person. And recently in class i just start blushing for no reason. They keep making fun of me now :( but they know not to tell it to other that do not know. I have no intention of telling the teacher or anything. I just want to get it off my mind

[byee]

Well, it's pretty common to develop feelings for teachers. They're authority figures who have a lot of responsibility for you, and if they're good at it, you like them. If you lack that (good, strong, nurturing adults) in your life, then the feelings can become very intense, that's the longing commonly known as a 'crush'.

It's OK to really like and admire and respect a teacher, and even enjoy them. Just keep it inside, enjoy them for the special role they play for you, without acting on it in any way that could jeopardize things for either of you.