Friends who are girls

[McDog]

Hi. My best freind is a girl and we have been great friends ever since we were little. Lately I have been thinking about her and looking at her kinda in appropriatly. It makes me rele mad at myself when I think about her that way. Is this wrong and if so what do I do? And btw, I'm a boy!

[Antares]

You're a hormonal teenager.
It happens.
As long as you don't do anything then youre fine but umm I think you are normal and its not necessarily wrong

[byee]

Things change at puberty! You become aware of her as a girl, she's no longer just a 'friend'.

Don't be mad at yourself, you have the developing awareness that accompanies puberty, things become more sexualized as you become that way, too. It's normal.

Your relationship is based on things deeper and more substantial than just the new hormonal/sexual part, try to remember that, and also use your new found awareness of her as a sexual being to enhance your understanding of who she is and what she is about. It doesn't need to change your relationship, it can give it another dimension that comes from appreciating more about what someone is!

[Loislane]

All the above advice was wonderful, i gave you some rep.

Basically. If you look at it in a different way, this is a part of you maturing. Remember back in the days when boys though girls were minging? And girls though that all boys done was pick there nose' (half true :P) and they were sick too? Yeah, well, now you've matured more, you're looking at her with possible feelings and sexually. If you thought of that when you were younger, you would have probably thrown up! :P

[Reality]

Feelings are never wrong. Only actions can be.

Although, if she's up for it, why not go out with her? Or is this completely a best-friend relationship?

[McDog]

Well we are best friends, but... I do kinda like her, and I think she likes me too. But she said that she wasn't ready for a relationship when I was talking to her about possiblities. I guess, we can talk to eachother about a lot of stuff BECAUSE we are different.

[optimashprime]

true i know someone like that but i dont fancy them
but sometimes the only way you truely find out if thay love you is to ask them out and see what they say