Girlfriend, but I like another girl!!! I'm confused!!!

[sirjamesalot]

Ok, so me and my girlfiriend have been going out for 16 months and we go to seperate schools, like an hour away, and I realize that I like another girl who is from my school. I just don't know what I should do. I know I love my girlfriend but its like all the spark is gone. Well thanks for listening, and if you have an opinion please post it.

[Pink-Floyd]

A Girlfriend that far away Could never work, But its really your decision

[WelshLad]

Of course it could. It has for 16 months hasnt it? D/w the sparks gone in my relationship if you read my earlier posts. I'm thinking of breaking up with her. But it depends on your situation.
Here's what I did, talk to her and ask her if you think she thinks the sparks gone. If it has break up, providing you don't feel so much for her as you did before. But does the other girl like you?? It's not worth breaking up if she doesn't

[Pink-Floyd]

oh 16 months, I forgot, U must be in a good Relationship then

[dylan]

well if you love her than do something to spark up the relationship try to get her to you house ( or vise versa) then mess around. like do oral or find out what made you love her then do that but try to spend the weekend with her and if theres nothing left then break it easy to her and tell her that the relationship isnt working and u still want to be friends but before u break up (if you break up) make sure that the other girl likes you. so you can go out with her if it doesnt work out with kim

[ForeverBlue]

If you like another girl, then break up with your girlfriend. Because if you're going to like someone else whats the point in dating your girlfriend? Even if you quote "love her." You oviously don't actually love her if you like someone else, romantically that is.

[DestroyTheFuture]

just cheat on your girlfriend. then you can get action from both of them...its awesome!


jk...kind of. its still awesome to get action, but w/e forget what i previously said.

dump your girlfriend dude, how could you not already know that? then go out with the girl that you like.

[bahari mtoto]

well first I'd find out if the other girl likes you or not and after that since the spark is gone i'd end the other relationship and stop stringing the other girl along because the longer it takes you to break it off the harder its going to be on you to choose.

[DestroyTheFuture]

well first I'd find out if the other girl likes you or not and after that since the spark is gone i'd end the other relationship and stop stringing the other girl along because the longer it takes you to break it off the harder its going to be on you to choose.

oh yeah, i forgot to include that. find out if the other girl likes you and decide if the other girl would make a better relationship than your current gf.

[cheeseman the III]

hey jus find out if that other girl likes you, than you can either two time or dump your girlfriend, i know it may seem bad, but thats what i do, i cheat on one girl till i can grab another, if that aint your style i don blame you, but your goin through close to what i went through couple days ago

[Gumleaf]

request lock please. surely he has worked out what to do now. its been 15 months.