Bi (Got a question)

[TDBRLA]

Well.. i'm bi and right now i have girlfriend. I feel really guilty sometimes with her not knowing that. I love her but i dont know... all i'm saying is..is it alright for me to not tell her. I might one day if we last but..HELP PLS.:confused:

[nick]

I don't think you need to tell her providing you're not double-timing and cheating on her. If you can suppress your gay side, at least for the moment, I cant see any need for her to know.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah its hard cuz then you have to act and be completly straight and hide your gay side but if you can do that then you dont have to tell her if you dont fell the time is right

[Sceneboy612]

As I found out, if you do not tell her, your guilt will seriously eat at you and make you feel terrible. I have had that same problem

[TDBRLA]

i'm bi maybe curious but not gay, just to ..uh clear that up a little:whoops:

[byee]

You're also 13. And a lot of other very interesting things as well, I assume. Focus on those.

As long as you are faithful to her, it's Ok to explore this relationship (and the feelings it stirs up in you) without needing to reveal *everything*. People in relationships are entitled to privacy, it's nothing to feel guilty about, since it doesn't affect her (or your relationship) right now.

As people get to know eachother and unfold themselves, you might choose to share this (or anything else) with her. Until you reach that point, it's Ok as long as you're not two timing her.

[AllThatIsLeft]

what they said.
and as you may not want that to get out just yet - it is recommendable you dont tell her until you know you can trust each other fully.