Very confused .. :S Please help me :(

[BuZzY]

:confused: hey i dont know if i should post this but this is the only site where i think i can find help cause i am very confused .. =((

I went like this way... until few days ago i though i was gay ... but today i had oral with a guy ... and i also came inside of him ...

i feel really strange ... really disgusted ... i mean it is not the first time.. but i didnt like it at all ... :S:S:S::S:S:S:S :confused::confused::confused::confused:

Please help =(((( I need help :confused::(:(

Please help me :( Please :(

[byee]

Buzzy, your sexuality isn't determined by what you do sexually, it's much more complicated than that.

It sounds like you had an experience today that left you feeling badly about it and yourself. This happens when we sometimes don't think about the consequences, and we're caught up in the moment.

Fortunately for you, there was no real harm done, no one got hurt. You learned two very important things: !) You don't like this *stuff*(or at least the feelings they cause for you), and 2) it pays to look for before you leap, to think about the potential consequences to your decisions.

Learn from it, and give yourself a break. Rarely are life's lessons painless.

[BuZzY]

The experience i had was very disgusting for me look at it in that way ..

does that mean i may have learnt my realy sexuality ?:confused:

[TheFreeshooterII]

Its Ok
Discovering your Gay ir Bi At First You Can come to Hate Yourself
But With Time youll accept it
nothing wrong with it
But if you didnt like the *experience*
think for next time

[BuZzY]

no the fact is .. i am starting to realise that women have more potentail .. the fact is that this is not the first time ... that why ... i found it soo strange... cause before i did like it ... today it felt horrible..

thats why i am think that maybe my real sexuality has been closed inside of me for this time

[TheFreeshooterII]

well first of all hwo old are you
if you did uder the age
you might be feel insecure and feel like youve done something wrong?

[Bluearmy]

no the fact is .. i am starting to realise that women have more potentail .. the fact is that this is not the first time ... that why ... i found it soo strange... cause before i did like it ... today it felt horrible..

thats why i am think that maybe my real sexuality has been closed inside of me for this time

There is no such thing. If you try hard enough to like it, you will.

[DrkZ90]

depending on how old are you, you could be just confused... in the end, only you can tell what you are...

by your post, I guess you felt fine while doing it, but afterwards you regret it... that's more proof that you might be confused, or scared... just think twice whenever you do something, no matter what it is, nothing should be done out of an impulse or something like that...

lastly, there's nothing wrong with what you and that guy did, as long as both of you wanted to do it atm... don't worry about it...

[BuZzY]

The strange thing that i cannot understand is that .. I ve done it before .. liked it ... and never felt this way ..

Thats why i am thinking that i must have tought that i was gay for all this time .. and i am not because now i dont feel sexually attracted to boys as much as i were ... i am getting more into girls ...

:S please help =( ..

Thanks for those who are already helping :)

[byee]

Buzzy, it might be helpful if you told us exactly what happened, with who, and the circumtances. Obviously, the answer to your question lies there, something about this experience was different for you. By understanding the differences in that experience, you might understand the differences in your response/feelings.

[Requin]

Moving to Teen Sexuality.

Well I agree with Sam on this matter. We need more really.

[BuZzY]

oh no .. It happend just like everytime .. my age is 16 ... and the fact is that it happend like every time I did it .. nothing different .. same stuff .. same place ... nothing different .. thats why i think i might have discovered my true sexuality ... since everthing was the same ...

I cant say I am totally gay because i flirt with girls .. am curious about them ... but never had experience with them .. thats why i might be have a redirection of the sexual orientation .. :/ :confused::what:

[HelloWorld123456]

well maybe thats true ... maybe your sexual orentation was mislead ... since you always had experience with boys .. maybe now your body is asking for a female partner and for a female body .. thats why you didnt like it ...

I think that now you are starting to discover your true sexual orentation since you said youve done it before and youve liked it ... maybe your identifying yourself =)

[tbboltz92]

I'am always amazed how people think their gay just because they did some sexual things with the same sex. As far as I understand you have to be pshyicaly and EMOTIONALY attracted to a person of the same sex to be considered gay or bi. I could be wrong but unless you have emotinal feelings for a member of the same sex i would consider oyu to just be what i like to call either hormonal or expirmental.

[BuZzY]

this is what happend today .. i was in the car ... with the guy that happened all that .. to figure things out //and to see if i was still attracted to guys or something ... fact is .. i always get kind of .. horny or get a boner when i am with him but today nothing of all this happened .. the air was just .. cold .. i wasnt neither hard nor horny anything .. just a plain and very quite conversation .. no dirty talking and when he tried to filrt i backed him off .. because i feel very turned off ... now ... but i didnt ... i kind of remained quite .. evitated every chance off entering in somekind of intercourse ... had no boners .. sexually turned off and felt very tuned of when he tried to touch me or entering in the "mood" ...

can you explain it to me ? pls help

I am not emotionally tied to persons of my same sex .. i cant say i love them .. i cant say i like to see.. and experiment new things ... maybe i pushed this thing too much and maybe this guy has misunderstood my actions ... but i am not emotionally tied to him ... :/ i feel more tied to a girl ... but i like to experiment and see new thigns including guys things and sexual stuff with them .. (but not love )

Please help .... Thanks :confused:

[tbboltz92]

Well maybe you should tell him exactly what you just told us. Tell him your not gay or bi you were just expirmenting to see what tit was like

[BuZzY]

oki did that ... i think he is kind of pissed off lozl .. but i feel more relived now that i have cleared things out :) thanks to everybody =) especially the one up this post ...

If somebody has more ideas about my sexuality please continue to help me =) thank you very very much everybody =D

[chucknorrisrules]

That's puberty for you... Just give it time, at first you may not want to accept it, but trust me, it's just easier to.

[BuZzY]

Hmm please help me ..

Though I am not sexually attracted to this boys it happens like this ..

I like girls .. and would like to have a family with a girl .. but .. i dont get sexually attracted to them, unless i see some like physical contact...

I have never have some type of sex with a girl, always with guys .. I kind of get boners when see gay porn .. but also get attracted to lesbian porn ...

Personally i dont immagine myself married with an other guy, because i am not look for physical contact with guys anymore .. but still like gay porn though .. but i can say i like boys but i love girls ...

please help ... Confused a lotz

[BuZzY]

Please help meee

[HelloWorld123456]

Hmm please help me ..

Though I am not sexually attracted to this boys it happens like this ..

I like girls .. and would like to have a family with a girl .. but .. i dont get sexually attracted to them, unless i see some like physical contact...

I have never have some type of sex with a girl, always with guys .. I kind of get boners when see gay porn .. but also get attracted to lesbian porn ...

Personally i dont immagine myself married with an other guy, because i am not look for physical contact with guys anymore .. but still like gay porn though .. but i can say i like boys but i love girls ...

please help ... Confused a lotz


Buh i dont know .. sorry .. :S but i got no idea

[aquaman246]

Ur mental,physical, and emotional state can be heavly influenced by experiences, i think u r thinking about this too much. This can cause a large amount of nervousness, its the same for exams really.

But to answer ur question u sound bi and i think uve always been bi uve just been caught up in the sort of excitement of being in a gay relationship