WHY THE FUCK IS THIS HAPPENING!?

[WelshLad]

I'M JUST SO FUCKING PISSED OFF NOW I KEEP PUNCHING THE SOFA.
My girlfriend was gonna sleep over becuase my parents are away for the night. We weren't gonna have sex coz we're not ready but after we jump in too bed she says i don't feel comfortable here and she fucks off home?? This happened 15 mins ago
Those of you who know me, will know that last week i was getting paranoid that she didnt like me and this has basically confirmed it. I could feel it when I looked at her. Although she says she does like me. Sometimes I just can't see it in her eyes.

Why can't I just find ONE girl who likes me?? I'm 16 - haven't had many girlfriends. My past2 didn't work out because one decided she fancied another guy more and the other was jealous that I was friends with a girl. I just wanna have a stable relationship where she likes me, but I just feel god is taking the fucking piss - i'm nearly in fucking tears

[WelshLad]

I'd just like to say thank you to the 5 people who've viewed this and ignored it

[redcar]

Lloyd its ok. there is someone there for you, if she is not the one.

but maybe she did feel akward there, and that would have no reflection on you. i think u need to talk to her about this. just ask her where u stand.

[WelshLad]

its gotta be a reflection on me. she was dirty as fuck to her ex bf. im not necessarily talking about physical stuff though. it was really embarassing. i was lying in my bed in my boxers thinking things were going great when she gets out of bed sayin shes too uncomfortable. i thought she was joking at first but she put her clothes in like 2 secs. what the fuck is wrong with me? what am i doing wrong? giving her love and attention? spending time with her? paying for her for everything? taking things as slow as she wants? making her laugh? is there something wrong there?

[redcar]

its not, you are a great guy. and if she cant see this then she is the problem.

i have learned from my experiences of girls, that some of them are just total bitches and not worth the time of day. if she is causing you all this hurt shes not worth it cause in the long run, its your happiness that matters.

[WelshLad]

She's supposedly fancied me for about a year and we've now been going out for about 2 months. she's not like a blonde cheerleader with no brain type -- she's down to earth, caring, bubbly. I did not picture it'd be like this at all. She convinced me after our little talk last week that she "rly rly rly rly rly likes me." Why doesnt she fucking show it?

[WelshLad]

it's got nothing to do with sex - we both knew we weren't gonna do it that night because we're not there yet.

She's never stayed the night with a bf though, but when she came over everything was great. Y'know we just watched a bit of tv, ordered a pizza (the rest of which i'm now eating for breakfast coz its 8am here and i've got work in an hour). We went upstairs, dry humped for a bit
and she seemed alright and smiling and everything and then after we jump into bed it just cam out of the blue.

I feel fucking awful this morning. I'm workin 9-6 and this is gonna be on my mind all day

[Glasgow]

Well it is possible that she doesnt like you anymore, or maybe she just wasnt comfortable sleeping with you. I know i wouldnt be the first time. Try it again, because when i went to my first party i had behind a couch, then the next one i was the first one dancing. Maybe she just had to think it over and get used to it. This is just one possibility. and I'm 13 and havnt had a girlfriend yet. Its pretty much because Im shy, but i could have a girlfriend in a second, because according to most girls i'm "sexy". anyways that doesnt matter just forget about it, and possibly try again.

[boeder]

Maybe She didnt feel comfortable, give her some credit

[TheWizard]

Uep you need to find out if she got scared.

[WelshLad]

*Refer to topic "Upd8" in this forum*

[r0x0row3nd]

every1 finds som1 for them at there own pase this is just urs :D i recently broke up with som1 but now i have a new 1 :D we all have are own pase dont rish it keep kewl about it like me 8)

[happyman]

i think u should not take things so badly. u should have confidence and try another girl :lol:

[evw93]

Ask her why she left. Maybe she thought you were going to have sex. If she did explain to her. You are a great guy