Im so bored!

[I Have A Question]

ive never posted a topic in this section so im not sure wat im doin. the thing i wanted to say was that im so sick of being nice good all the time. i wud meet a girl become friends if i liked her in that way id ask her out shed say yes we wud go out! we wud get off with each other every so often and eventually wed break up. i jus want to meet some1 hu just wanted to have a fling and hav fun an not take it serious but i dont realy no any1 like this! wat shud i do????????????????????

[RowanVer.3.0]

There's tons of girls around here like that. They're called sluts. Look it up.

[Pink-Floyd]

Lol, Im Sure u'll meet someone

[ScotsGirl]

There's tons of girls around here like that. They're called sluts. Look it up.

I disagree.
Just because a girl doesnt want a serious relationship, she is a slut? :roll:
And if you all believe that, why didnt anyone care to point out that the guys who do that are sluts aswell?
Sorry but I dont like double standards :? ...

Im not saying I agree with the way I Have A Question is thinking, but youre generalising all girls who dont want a serious relationship, stereotyping them.
Please dont.

Anyway, I Have A Question, can i ask how old you are? :? Also, why is it that you dont want anything serious?
Im all for people jsut wanting to have fun, as long as they are old enough, responsible enough, well prepared (both physically and mentally) and that they understand the consequences involved.
I suggest you really think about what youre contemplating, and in the meantime, there are these wonderful things called hands that you will find attached at the end of your arms, im sure you can use them to satisfy yourself ;)

xxx

[Elokyn]

I totally completely 100% agree with lynne.

All I can say to add on is if you do find girls like that I suggest you be very careful. There are so many stds floating around. Just try to keep your partners to a minimum.

[RowanVer.3.0]

i jus want to meet some1 hu just wanted to have a fling and hav fun an not take it serious but i dont realy no any1 like this! wat shud i do????????????????????

A fling, someone who you don't really wanna be with and just want to have "fun" with. Fun meaning of course, making out, sex and the like.

If a girl just wants to have sex for fun with a person who she doesn't really care for, she is, a slut. Most people that are like this date multiple people and "have fun" with them since they are just looking for a "fling".

Also, Lynne, he didn't say he was looking for guys. He said he was looking for girls. I'm not doing any double standards here, if he said "i wud meet a guy become friends if i liked him in that way id ask him out hed say yes we wud go out" I would have replied differently...... Buuuut, he didn't.

Basically, he's saying he wants a f*ck buddy, a tramp.

[Underage_Thinker]

Basically, he's saying he wants a f*ck buddy, a tramp.

Ya from his post that sounds pretty much about what he wants.

[ScotsGirl]

So if a girl has a fuck buddy then she is a slut/tramp?
Well what does that make the guy??

Like i said before, if someone is old enough responsible enough etc etc...then whats wrong with them having fun with one person? So they dont officially call it a relationship, it doesnt mean they dont care about the other person, and he never said anything about sleeping around.

I stand by what I said before though, I have no idea how old I_Have_A_Question is and Im not saying I agree with what he wants to do, I jsut think that people seem so quick to call a girl who admits to enjoying sex or not wanting a serious relationship, a slut. That term is thrown about so much sometimes its seems like people forget what it actually means.

And I definately agree with what Nykole said and I think it should be said again:

All I can say to add on is if you do find girls like that I suggest you be very careful. There are so many stds floating around. Just try to keep your partners to a minimum.

:D
xxx

[RowanVer.3.0]

Well, if you're going out with someone just for the sex-chances are, they're going to cheat on you. Think about it, it doesn't make sense that if they just want sex they're gonna stay with this one person.

The guy would be a tramp too. Most girls don't even bother with guys like that, they're called a less hurtfull word 'Player, playa' or something of the sort. But yeah, I have seen girls say "no, I won't go out with you, you just play girls". So it's not just girls that get frowned upon for just wanting sex and no relationship what so ever.

[jaythunder]

There's tons of girls around here like that. They're called sluts. Look it up.

lol, steriotypical, and untrue, but funny.