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GiZzLe
April 15th, 2009, 10:34 AM
ok, well my last post was "Where do I go from here?" well we broke up again. My mom finally got what she wanted. my mom told his mom that im a compulsive liar, and his parents didnt like what they heard. We are real good friends we still talk on the phone but on fridays and the weekends and sometimes during the week when one of us has a bad day. he still tells me "I love you." and we still act like were going out, but havnt kissed or anything. We talk about the memories we had together. He says that he's really sorry and i asked him why and he said "Because I broke you're heart. :'( that made me cry. I love him a lot and always will. He is my First True Love. He said that he wants to wait until the summer so he can keep his grades up. Do you think I should go back out with him, or even act like we are?
I need as many answers as I can.

IAMWILL
April 15th, 2009, 12:40 PM
Well here, the deciscion is all yours.

What you need to do here is not try to get back with him now, just live your life as normal. If you find there's another guy out there that you find attractive or good, maybe pursue him. You twos relationship didn't work out to well, so maybe it's time to move on. If you find that you're still attracted to him, then you could go out with him at the end of the summer, but don't do both! (as in, go out with a guy until summer, then break up to go out with him).

The deciscion is all yours here, so do what you feel is right, a good deciscion, and will work. Don't worry about hurting feelings, that's the stuff that can influence things in the wrong direction. You have a few months, so plan forward!