Am I Okay?

[Noblekign]

Hi, I'm 13 and am getting worried about my height, penis size etc.
My family (brother, cousins and aunts and uncles .. (sometimes my mom) laugh about my size, I'm 5.2. My two cousins are only one month older then me, one being 5.5 the other 5.9. My cousin who is 5.9 penis is greatly larger then mine. Mine measuring 4 inches when erected. I have hair, but just around the base of the penis, and a little above the penis. My voice is the same as it's always been. One or two cracks every now or then. It's just hard for my social life aswell, My girlfriend has already matured. She is a few inches taller then me. And she even told her friend that the only thing she doesn't like about me is my height ):, luckily she also told her how much she does love me and that it doesn't matter. It's still harmful to me though.

[The Joker]

I'm your age and I'm 5 feet tall. It shouldn't really matter. I'm the same erect. It shouldn't really matter, you'll grow. I'm one of the smallest in class, and no one really cares.

[Jman35]

I'm the short kid to, 13, 5'1. But the thing is, everyone is lacking something, so nobody really cares. For example, I'm short, but the next guy might not be as smart, or not have some other characterisitic.

In short, everyone is different, and you'll grow, you just haven't really fully gotten into puberty yet, If I'm correct, i was like you around 13 and a half

[byee]

You'll grow, what you've got is temporary. Gotta start somewhere!

It's really hard when your self conscious about something, and it's commented on, picked at, or laughed at. Your family might not realize your sensitivity about your size, so you might want to privately tell them (or at least your folks, who could spread the word on your behalf) to lay off and be more supportive.

Your G/F has the right idea, noticing the obvious but appreciating the rest. More.

[Donkey]

You're absolutely fine, penis size isn't permenant during puberty and you will grow more. Most of the girls that you would want to be going out with won't care about penis size, so there's nothing to worry about there. it's not always a great idea to tell friends and family about penis size, for the reasons you mentioned above: they might tease you.

[Loislane]

You're 13, and boys generally stop growing around the age of 21 (for girls it's around 18). This means you've still got 8 years of growing to do.
You're girlfriend admitted that you're height is not to much to worry about and that she loves you. That's fine then, you have nothing to worry about. She still loves you for who you are.
Keep eating healthy foods, drinking lot's of water and getting exercise. You'll grow soon enough!

[Stevo 69]

This question comes up alot, and there is a simple answer: TIME.

You are normal, do not worry! Most boys worry about their penis size and they shoudln't be. Puberty takes time and time is very important. Puberty lasts about 8 years, starting at 14 and ends around 20-21, so you ahve plenty of time to develop.

Keep calm, let time to it's thing!

Your girlfriend is right here, the only thing that should matter to her is that she loves you for who you are. And don't worry about being short, like I said - you will grow!

[InTheUK]

Well I can't help you here cos I'm 13 I'm 5,7 tall and my penis is 5.5inch erect also my voice has deepened so everyone says

[Axle]

Hi, I'm 13 and am getting worried about my height, penis size etc.
My family (brother, cousins and aunts and uncles .. (sometimes my mom) laugh about my size, I'm 5.2. My two cousins are only one month older then me, one being 5.5 the other 5.9. My cousin who is 5.9 penis is greatly larger then mine. Mine measuring 4 inches when erected. I have hair, but just around the base of the penis, and a little above the penis. My voice is the same as it's always been. One or two cracks every now or then. It's just hard for my social life aswell, My girlfriend has already matured. She is a few inches taller then me. And she even told her friend that the only thing she doesn't like about me is my height ):, luckily she also told her how much she does love me and that it doesn't matter. It's still harmful to me though.
Your alright dude. I'm your age and I started puberty around 10. Now I have a deep voice, I am 5'11 an my dick is 5.5 in. erect. You will continue to grow until your about 19 or 20.

[MisterAndrews]

Height isnt everything lol. Im only 5'6", but everything else is fine. Im 7" down there, it's not correlated to your height and neither is your voice. Give it time, your penis will grow, your voice will deepen and if you dont grow in height that much who cares? It makes you, you!

[Kevi Coz]

Everybody matures differently. I was 6'1 at 13 and my best friend was 4'9. Now im almost 15 and my best friend is 6'0 and im only 2 inches taller than him. Thats how much difference a year can make

[darkkid]

I wish i was that tall at 13. I was almost 5'8 I am 6'5 now (17)

[raz0r]

theres nothing wrong with being small, im 13, 6ft, it's bad being tallest in your class, your voice will break eventually, so nothing to be afraid of :)

[pontiacdriver]

Hi, I'm 13 and am getting worried about my height, penis size etc.
My family (brother, cousins and aunts and uncles .. (sometimes my mom) laugh about my size, I'm 5.2. My two cousins are only one month older then me, one being 5.5 the other 5.9. My cousin who is 5.9 penis is greatly larger then mine. Mine measuring 4 inches when erected. I have hair, but just around the base of the penis, and a little above the penis. My voice is the same as it's always been. One or two cracks every now or then. It's just hard for my social life aswell, My girlfriend has already matured. She is a few inches taller then me. And she even told her friend that the only thing she doesn't like about me is my height ):, luckily she also told her how much she does love me and that it doesn't matter. It's still harmful to me though.

The first thing I would seriously do is let your family know that making fun of your height is something that you find really offensive and that it hurts your feelings. I am sure that your family is just trying to have fun with you, but at your age comments about physical appearance can be really hard. As a result, your family needs to know about your feelings so that they can stop their hurtful commentary.

As for your girlfriend being bigger than you the reality is that in junior high many girls are bigger than boys. Keep in mind that girls generally start puberty before guys, and as a result they get bigger than boys first. However, by the time you are in high school you will most likely be taller than your girlfriend as puberty for her will end while you are still growing.

To be honest, for a 13 year old your size is totally fine, and most junior high schoolers are you size. You are hardly short by any standards, and you can't compare apples to oranges with regards to develop. I know that it is hard to hear, but the reality is that you have time on your side, and puberty is a 4-5 year process for nearly all guys. It took all of us guy several years to reach our full height, and you will probably grow very gradually or have a growth spurt sooner rather than later.

Basically, let folks who make fun of your height know that you don't appreciate their commentary, and know for yourself that you are average height for a 13 year old and are normal.

[Sceneboy612]

that is a normal hight for someone who is 13, i am 15 and i am 5'9, and i have no problem with it, but i kinda like being short. and your penis...Delema?, i have a friend that is 12 days younger than me with a 4 inch penis.

you are just starting puberty.. some people start early, some start late, but you are starting a little later than your cousins... but you will go through puberty, and your penis will grow too, so try to be happy with it, and it will get bigger in time.

Hope i helped

[Bobfrank543]

your just a late bloomer, thats all

[Reality]

You're still only 13. You're still growing, don't worry about it.

[McDog]

Dude same with me!

[kipper]

dont let them get to you your still growing and its very possible in a couple of months you'll hit a bit of a growth spurt and you'll grow and possibly even grow bigger then them sorry but why does your whole family now your penis size? amd why do you know theres? sorry but i usaly consider these thing private and not to be shared with your family

[nick]

your just a late bloomer, thats all
He's not a late bloomer he's 13 for christ's sake.

You're perfectly normal. Some guys will grow to be tall from your height at your age, others wont. It doesn't really matter, you're in a normal range for your age so I don't think you need to worry too much. Much the same with your penis size, at 13 you've probably got a way to go yet and 4" is a perfectly normal size for that age.

[sam i am]

im 13 too all u have to do is wait dude girls grow faster than boys and then they catch up so it's not a big deal o btw im 5'4 just relax k?