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irishguy913
April 14th, 2009, 01:26 PM
so i got a new gf and we have been dating for a couple of week and she wats to all the way but i dont really want to. wat should i do.
Donkey
April 14th, 2009, 01:27 PM
Tell her that, don't be forced to do anything you don't want to. If she is a good girlfriend, she will understand that if you say you mean no. If she doesn't, you're better without her
irishguy913
April 14th, 2009, 01:46 PM
thanks donkey. i will tell her the next time i see her
nick
April 14th, 2009, 03:35 PM
Yeah, Jon's right. Make sure you tell her you love her, and its not because you don't find her attractive and so on, but just say you don't feel ready for it. She should respect that.
wavey
April 14th, 2009, 03:38 PM
say waht the others have said, just dont push it, id also do it on a date like near the end make out then afterwards say you dont wanna go the distance yet, lets see how things go in the next few weeks and well think about it.
also, what is worrying you about going all that way?
MisterAndrews
April 14th, 2009, 03:42 PM
also, what is worrying you about going all that way?
Thats besides the point, its a big thing and you should only do it when you feel comfortable. If she can't respect that then she's not for you.
Requin
April 14th, 2009, 03:43 PM
Moving to R & D.
Beautiful Obsession
April 14th, 2009, 04:51 PM
tell her you dont want to do that right now, your not ready so dont do anything yur not comfortable with x
Nihilus
April 14th, 2009, 04:59 PM
Tell her that you feel it is to early to go all the way.
MaddyC
April 15th, 2009, 08:07 AM
only 2 weeks .... i dont think thats long enough to trust someone with all of you, but maybe thats just me
let her know that you arent ready for it, if she is a nice girl, she will totally understand and she will wait until you are ready
dont go doing something you are pressured into, you will definately regret it later on!
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