My bro

[Jman35]

Something really horrible has happened, and also explains why I haven't been on...

My step brother molested my half brother, (I visit my dad on weekends).

He's went to hospitals, cops, etc. He always lies, and says he did nothing wrong. I've known this was coming for a while, I don't know why, but ever since I met this kid, I've known.

I really just want to beat this little bitch. (hes not much younger)
I don't want to kill him, honestly, but I really think he deserves the beating of his fucking life. He always picked on my little brother, whos 4 now, and much younger and smaller. My little bro was acting wierd when he got out of the tub, and that's when my step mom found out. He can talk very well and when she asked if anything like that happened, he let it out.


I really think he deserves to be beaten within an inch of his life, not spanked, BEATEN. My dad and step mom can't do shit, the cops and CPS may come. They also can not lock him in his room as grounding, the cops also said that's considered abuse or whatever.

What do I do? I have the perfect excuse, I dream about it, I think about it, I crave it, I really want him to suffer and be picked on and feel like my little brother did. I think for at least a month AT LEAST, he should have someone 3 times his size pick on him, spit on him, and kick the shit out of him.

sorry for the language but as I write this, I get mad and think about how much I really just want to bust him open and throw him around like the little bully punk bitch he is. I think, seriously, that if someone picked on him and beat him and he got to know what it feels like, he would stop.

By the way, he doesn't do it out of curiosity, trust me, to long to explain. He's done it multiple times and knows it's wrong. He does it because he's sick and wants to feel like he's in power and can control my brother.

No matter what, I just want to beat the shit out of him. What should I do, what could my parents do? Could I have CPS (Child protective services) take him away to a psych ward? I need him out of the house before I beat him down, and if I don't, my dad will.

Every time I hear my little brother say what he did to him, a part of me dies and I get angrier each time...

[byee]

This is horrible, I'm really sorry for you and your little bro.

Abuse, esp. sexual abuse, is a real trauma for everyone, so your feelings are understandable. The most important thing right now is to safeguard your little brother and make sure the abuse doesn't continue. CPS will do this.

The next step is for all of you to get into therapy (CPS will probably make this a condition), where you can process your rage and do something with it other than (understandably) wanting to attack your other brother.

In the mean time, it's important to talk with your folks about your feelings, as well as hearing their plan to safeguard your little brother. It might also be a good idea to avoid your other bro as things could easily get out of hand. You want to keep the focus on keepimg little bro safe, and getting other bro into a place where he can learn some controls, NOT on your attacking him.

[nick]

First of all I'm realy sorry to hear your story, this is just horrible, but sadly not all that unusual.

It sounds as if, so far, you've managed to control your anger and this is good. You need to stick at it. If you were to beat him up you could find yourself in serious trouble, perhaps with the police involved again, and altough it might you feel good for a few minutes, this would be the last thing your little brother needs.

Dont sink to his level.

[The Batman]

For someone to do that to a little kid they must really have something messed up in their head. The bullying make sense if you really think about it. It was probably him trying to either keep the kid not so close to him or get himself less attracted to him. This guy needs years of counseling and beating the crap out of him won't help. How old is he?

[HPstoner]

First of all I'm realy sorry to hear your story, this is just horrible, but sadly not all that unusual.

It sounds as if, so far, you've managed to control your anger and this is good. You need to stick at it. If you were to beat him up you could find yourself in serious trouble, perhaps with the police involved again, and altough it might you feel good for a few minutes, this would be the last thing your little brother needs.

Dont sink to his level.

Yeeeeeaaaahhh...I'd just beat the shit out of him honestly. Cops can't do jack all you're a minor.

[Loco]

Id Kik The Shit Out Of Him Honestly
He Needs To Learn That If He Does It Again He Knows What Will Happen!
So Sorry About Your Bro Tho

[ebony15]

oh my goodness, i feel so sorry for what happened.. :(

but your brother hasnt done anything more lately right?..

[Jonathan M.]

GOD I'm biting my lip right nowto bot ask you wer he lives and beat the f----- b my self.Personally i would beat the crap out of him but if thats not an option to ruin his (which he kinda did to your bro by pretty much scarring him)tell the kids at his school if i new that som1 was a child molester at my school i would stay the f---- from him!Or you should be able to report him to somethin if he molested a 4 year old!Your parents could at leaste send him to military school!THIS SHOULDNT BE LEFT UN-PUNISHED.

[ebony15]

it's not a good thing if they just leave him alone. WHO KNOWS RIGHT IF THERE ARE OTHER CHILDREN OUT THERE WHO ARE VICTIMS OF HIS EVIL DOING..

[Jman35]

Once again just so everyone knows, it happened more than once before we found out (he wont admit it.) Also, when he got out of several hospitals he did other things. I'm still wanting to beat the shit out of him, and haven't seen him for a while. I saw him once after the incident, and my dad had to hold me down 2 rooms away just to make sure I didn't kill him. Yes, KILL him. I got the chance, (under supervision and being held back) to question him. He says "i don't know" and ignores most of my questions. I feel as if I have the right to at LEAST KNOW why he did it. I really think that if I hear my little brother say what happened 1 more time, I'm going to snap and beat the shit out him.

[Hyper]

Well.. I can really understand why.. But obviously the consequences wont be good..

What are Your parents doing about it?

Like punishment, theraphy.. Or what?

It also sucks that You don't live together with your brother so you can't protect him, but beating the other kid up might just make him go and beat your brother up again... Just to make himself feel better

[Jman35]

Well.. I can really understand why.. But obviously the consequences wont be good..

What are Your parents doing about it?

Like punishment, theraphy.. Or what?

It also sucks that You don't live together with your brother so you can't protect him, but beating the other kid up might just make him go and beat your brother up again... Just to make himself feel better
I've thought that through to, but also understand that kicking his ass might set him straight, either way nothing is being done, and something needs to be done.


Honestly, I think there would be no consequences, my dad would yell if cops came, but in the end, I think my parents would actually appreciate it, because my dad was complaining about how they cannot punish him, due to CPS.

I'm not doing it out of pride, or to make my parents proud or happy, but I really think that everyone wants to beat his ass, and I think I'm going to have to step up and do it. Today is 4/20 Monday, I see him Friday, or Saturday. I think I'm going to snap.

[Hyper]

I've thought that through to, but also understand that kicking his ass might set him straight, either way nothing is being done, and something needs to be done.


Honestly, I think there would be no consequences, my dad would yell if cops came, but in the end, I think my parents would actually appreciate it, because my dad was complaining about how they cannot punish him, due to CPS.

I'm not doing it out of pride, or to make my parents proud or happy, but I really think that everyone wants to beat his ass, and I think I'm going to have to step up and do it. Today is 4/20 Monday, I see him Friday, or Saturday. I think I'm going to snap.

How old is he and how old are you?

I can very clearly understand why You want to beat him up.. But I've also seen people in my life who have no emotions and no guilt for hurting others, they are unfixable.

[nachtspiegel]

If you wouldn't mind telling how old you are and how old the other kid is, I'd be glad to throw in what I have to say.
I have to make sure that I know as much as I can before I answer.

[Jman35]

How old is he and how old are you?

I can very clearly understand why You want to beat him up.. But I've also seen people in my life who have no emotions and no guilt for hurting others, they are unfixable.


im 13
hes 11

[anthonyjr2]

wow.....hes 11 and molested a 4 yr old? thats messed up. he really needs help

[The Batman]

Dude an 11 year old? He probably doesn't know what he's doing.

[Hyper]

Dude an 11 year old? He probably doesn't know what he's doing.

Umm I think an 11 year old kid knows if he is causing someone pain.

But all that beside.....

I don't think beating the crap out of him will make anything better in the long run.. So try to talk to your parents and if your resourceful find out the laws regarding underaged kids in your area.. I know in here that kid could be hospitalized..

[Shattered Soul]

I am really sorry about what happened to your brother, I know I would destroy anyone who tried to harm my little bro. I know you must really want to kick the living snot out of this kid, and then some, but violence cannot be the answer especially if the police are involved - it would be detrimental to your brother's, and your case. Think about it, the little git would tell the police you had been beating him up for ages, and that you convinced your little bro to lie, he may even say that you'd threatened your little bro to get him to lie.
As for not knowing what he is doing, if he does that more than once and knows he is causing a little boy pain, then he definately knows what he is doing. But it would be good to learn where he learnt that behaviour - perhaps he has been, or is being abused, himself?
For now, keep cool. Leave it to the police and adults. And keep your little brother safe.

[Jman35]

Dude an 11 year old? He probably doesn't know what he's doing.

He knows what he's doing, and we've explained it over and over again, he knows, no way to really explain it in text, but I've known him for while.

Today's Wednesday, Friday i see him, and i still have that urge.

[The Batman]

You need to just calm down and think it through. Beating him up will not solve anything and since he's young he's probably confused about it himself. Just try and stay cool and if you still want to beat him up then don't go over there. Talk to your parents about it and if you can talk to him on the phone.

[Jman35]

You need to just calm down and think it through. Beating him up will not solve anything and since he's young he's probably confused about it himself. Just try and stay cool and if you still want to beat him up then don't go over there. Talk to your parents about it and if you can talk to him on the phone.

I have they say I have to see my dad and deal with him in the meantime, by the way, he has never been molested, he swore on a stack of bibles and took a polygraph, and the only suspect also took a polygraph test (lie detector)

Idk today is thursday, it's almost here, what the hell do i do to stop my self from wrapping my hands around his throat and throwin him through a wall.

[The Batman]

You need to tell them that you don't want to go. Being angry is not the way to go meet up you just need to stay cool and try and approach him in a calm manner.

[Jman35]

You need to tell them that you don't want to go. Being angry is not the way to go meet up you just need to stay cool and try and approach him in a calm manner.

I see him in a few hours. NEED HELP.

I think my dad wants me to beat his ass :confused:

I told him and my dad's response was "Well, I don't blame ya"

[The Batman]

Avoid him as much as you can and your dad is shouldn't allow you to do it anyway.

[Jman35]

Back from dad's, it was horrible.

I avoided him, and the only reason I didn't snap his neck when he brushed by me, was because my little brother hadn't said anything about it that weekend.

I won't see him for 4 weeks, and hopefully by then, my step mom's incorrigibility claim will have went through. I cannot stand the sight of that kid.

[The Batman]

I'm glad you avoided him and handled it so great. Good luck with the claim.

[loz4]

Give him one for my mate he sounds like he deserves it, my lil bro(11) had a guy at school who bullied him(12), i mean actually punched him in the face and my lil bro's cheek was fractured then i pinned the kid up against the wall the next day and said if you do it again I WILL Beat THE S**T OUT OF YOU. he got the message.

[Bluearmy]

This step bro character deserves a beating. But sadly two wrongs do not make a right. This may sound strang comming out of me, but the best thing for you to do is just protect your half-bro from him and let this step bro know that you would like to see him 6ft under. Other then that, you will just have to wait for the proper athorities to take action.

[Jman35]

This step bro character deserves a beating. But sadly two wrongs do not make a right. This may sound strang comming out of me, but the best thing for you to do is just protect your half-bro from him and let this step bro know that you would like to see him 6ft under. Other then that, you will just have to wait for the proper athorities to take action.

2 wrongs don't make a right, but what does 1 right and one wrong make?

[The Batman]

Another wrong violence is never the answer dude.

[Eagle1]

call CPS
sorry to hear about your situation.