help

[irishguy913]

so there this girl i like and we have been friends sence we were little and i like her but i am scared that if i ask her out it could mess our friendship. wat should i do:confused:

[Loislane]

Personally, i would wait until there are some clear signs that she likes you back.
I hope things work out for you! :)

[irishguy913]

thanks it kinda did help. but there have beens signs and i even ask her if she did like me and she said yes and she knows i like her to

[Loislane]

thanks it kinda did help. but there have beens signs and i even ask her if she did like me and she said yes and she knows i like her to

One day, sit her down and explain to her how you feel. Explain how you think that if you broke up you'd be worried about the wonderful friend-ship you had before.

If you do go out, try to keep things as smooth as possible.

[irishguy913]

thanks. i will cause im seeing her today. and if it dosent work out we will just be friends. but thanks for your help again

[byee]

There's always that risk when you change something that's already working pretty well for you. If you look at it in purely mathematical terms, the chances of this 'working out' (as in forever, literally) are pretty much close to zilch. So, the questions become 1) Will both of you be able to go back to 'just being friends' afterwards, and 2) Is it worth it?

There's a lot of overemphasis on formalizing relationships with the use of the term 'going out'. But when you think about it, all it does is (sorta) guarantee bragging rights, and exclusivity........for a while. But relationships (the good ones, anyway) are defined not so much by terminology, but 'closeness'. And you can have and enjoy that without all the baggage and risks of formalizing it unnecessarily by labelling it as 'going out'.

[irishguy913]

thanks iamsam. i hung out with her earlyer and we both decide to be close friends instead that way it dosent mess our friendship up.