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[jammyd]

Theres this girl that i'v been friends with for ages, and we are gonna go out on friday, yesterday on msn, she was telling me about her friend going out with a boy, and asked me if i were that boy, would i think she was sl utty to make a move and try and kiss me. Then she said they were the same closeness as me and her, and that she didnt think it would be sl utty if me and her kissed.

Do you think that her story could have been made up to try and get me to make a move?

Also i want to kiss her, but am really shy as that would be my first kiss.

Sorry its so long i just thought it would be easier to answer with the whole story,

Thanks


Edit : thanks everyone, im seeing her tomorro so ill let u no how it goes.

[BuryYourFlame]

hey, dw bout length mate, we will read it no matter the length :)

first problem that strikes me is that she is, from what you have said, a fairly close friend, this could create a few troubles in the relationship if you guys go out, kiss etc. and then break up. If you are going to kiss her, then you should be aware that you things probably wont be like they are now if you two break up.

As to whether what she did was hinting something...i really dont know sorry...girls can just be weird a lot of the time. But certainly make sure you both know what is happening. If it wasn't a hint, and she didn't want anything, this could lead to some pretty hefty consequences. I suggest you ask her, just to clarify things.

hope this helps :)

(edit): hehe, 400th post xD

[Dylo]

As to kissing her, I would wait like AT LEAST two weeks from when you two start dating, it was just how I was raised and its my ethic, but choose what you want to do.

My guess was that she was probably hinting, unlike what The-Never-Cycle said is I would NOT confront her, but that is your own personal choice too.

Lastly is dating friends is tough, break ups (which will most likely happen unless you plan on marrying her) are difficult with friends, unless your the kind of guy who try's to keep it connected all the time, which is also very difficult...

[byee]

Ahhh.....that first kissssssssssssss. Yum.

Yeah, I'd say that she's fairly asking you to make the move, that she's ready. However, the issue isn't just her readiness, it's yours. Kissing someone is pretty personal and it can be pretty intense (to say nothing of nerve wracking!). So, you should see her question as a readiness on her part, which takes some of the anxiety out of it, but you should wait until you feel comfortable being that close.