Problem with my girlfriend.

[AutumnDae]

Someone asked me to post this for them.

its my girlfriend, i love her, i would kill for her, i would DIE for her. i nearly did. Ive grown up so much since being with her, and she is perfect for me. we are both 14, and she wants me to make, liek the ultimate commitment to her. She wants me to ask her to marry me, ask her now thn wait five years or whatever. I said i would. and i want to end up with her, but i dont know whether i should. im just a kid, i dont feel like a kid anymore but i am. and she needs me to do this, just so she knows i will be with her. Shes kind of... well possessive and she doesnt trust other girls around me, she always thinks im gonna get stolen. i dont know what to do. if i asked her, ill feel kinda trapped but if i dont, shell be heartbroken.

[IAMWILL]

Well, unknown person, relationships are tough.

Marriage is something you cannot commit to when you're this young, it's just a "no". You don't know what will happen in the next few years, and you might stay together, but you cannot make these type of commitments yet. Stay together unless something really really bad for your relationship happens, but don't make a commitment to MARRIAGE.

It's okay for her to be over protective, but when she starts not letting you hang out with other friends that are girls, that's taking it to far. Take her on a date or something to make sure she knows you're with her, but tell her you need to be able to be with other girl friends without her being super watchful or interferent.

You two need to calm down a little, take things slower, not worry, and just love each other :)

[hazza95]

dude dont do it u r too young

[cherry_boi]

the fact that she NEEDS you to do this is enough evidence that she is not ready for a commitment like that, and u guys r only 14, u cud the most in love couple in the world but 14 is still too young to be that involved with the idea of marriage

[Gumleaf]

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