Is It Okay

[jgibbsd]

This Question Is For A Friend:
Is it okay to shower and masturbate with your brother?

[pcd31]

yea go for it. join in with them if you want.

[jgibbsd]

I Might Do That!

[pcd31]

Whatever turns you on lol. Just don't go too far or make anything uncomfortable.

[iceyfresh]

Well its a comon thi ng but you should be careful because having a partial sexual relation with a brother can turn into be a problem just be careful about the situation.

[optimashprime]

i think its ok

[MisterAndrews]

I don't see why you'd want to do that... and it depends how old the brother is obviously.

[Eagle1]

i dont see the problem just dont push them

[Donkey]

I see a huge problem here, well several:

1. It may become awkward between you and your brother afterwards and ruin your relationship.
2. He may not want to, and afterwards think of you differently, doing the above point.
3. Masturbating may turn into something else, should he accept. And that would probably be illegal.
4. Imagine if your parents caught you?
5. Dude, he's your brother... it's just weird...

Well, it's up to you but I've told you how I feel. Bad idea imo.

[TheFreeshooterII]

i Have to agree with donkey sorry

[Truth]

I also agree with donkey.. Seriously dude, I can't even talk to my bro without getting annoyed, and you want to masturbate with yours.

[TheFreeshooterII]

Yes Me and my Brother are Constant Enemies

[marktheman]

I think my bro would love that.
If you both want to and you're both comfortable with it, I don't see anything wrong with it.

[Stevo 69]

I have to say that, I personally find it rather odd, I mean it's your brother! There's just some things family should an shouldn't do. In my opinion this is something you shouldn't do.

Imagine asking him and what his reaction would be. If you do want to do it though, you might want to consider how he may feel about you now and, should he accept, after. Masturbating with or infront of family could raise problems like, the relationship you share could be ruined forever.

I'm not saying you shouldn't but I'm just giving my opinion.

[awkward silence]

it seems like it would be ok. but thats only if both people want that. if not then its not right.

[newfiee 13]

its ok but if he doesent want to then dont force it also make shure it doesent go any farther then masturbating

[nick]

I don't think its a very good idea, I would say dont do it.

[wavey]

I see a huge problem here, well several:

1. It may become awkward between you and your brother afterwards and ruin your relationship.
2. He may not want to, and afterwards think of you differently, doing the above point.
3. Masturbating may turn into something else, should he accept. And that would probably be illegal.
4. Imagine if your parents caught you?
5. Dude, he's your brother... it's just weird...

Well, it's up to you but I've told you how I feel. Bad idea imo.

Agreeing with it all, i was thinking same things but then iread the positives arbout it, there are no positives. its your brother and thats that.

just find a friend your own age and masterbate. and in the shower? come on. ffs.

[pontiacdriver]

I see a huge problem here, well several:

1. It may become awkward between you and your brother afterwards and ruin your relationship.
2. He may not want to, and afterwards think of you differently, doing the above point.
3. Masturbating may turn into something else, should he accept. And that would probably be illegal.
4. Imagine if your parents caught you?
5. Dude, he's your brother... it's just weird...

Well, it's up to you but I've told you how I feel. Bad idea imo.

I totally agree with this post, and nothing good can come out of doing a sexual act with a brother. The fact above hit the nail on the head, and your brother is your flesh and blood and should never be your sexual partner.

[Oblivion]

I agree with Donkey.
I'll add: What if things go bad?
Masturbation with friends is much easier- if something goes wrong, you don't have to be friends.
If its with your brother though, you have to live with him until one of you are 18. And even after that you have to be with him a lot.

[byee]

Add my voice to the chorus of reason and restraint here: It's is most unwise to enter a sexual realtionship with your brother. It changes the realtionship far too much, too many complicated emotions get involved, and it's really not at all worth it.

If you're curious about masturbating with another guy and cannot control that curiosity, find a peer to do it with.

[BirdsandtheBees]

Yeah, it does seem kinda iffy. I did a few times with my older brother (not showered, just masturbated in front of each other) but it got awkward and we stopped. we shared a room so it was kinda common...we both knew we jacked off so we just did infront of each other once and did it for a while. but i think showering together would be awkward...and weird if your parents caught you definitely!

[Bobfrank543]

I would find that awkward, but as long as its okay with you its fine

[awkward silence]

ok nevermind. after reading some more posts. and thinking back on a few personal experiances i 100% think its not right and would never do it.
(well it would be never do it again.)

[Bluearmy]

I don't think its a very good idea, I would say dont do it.

+1

I second this...

[kipper]

shower i guess but mastubate no

[xian]

yeah i guess. sometimes you cant control yourself. or vice versa.

[FalconSmash]

Well, I really don't see anything wrong with it. I mean, if he approached you about it (or if your friend's brother approached him), and he didn't mind, than I see no problem. If either of them didn't want to, though, it's not that bad. I mean, I think guys usually have somebody they masturbate with every once in a while. And doing that with your brother may make it better, he could be more open and vice versa, answering questions and whatnot.

[rawsirk]

i guess you can let him catch you masterbating, or you can watch porn together and say something there. I always wanted a brother, i was thinking about the same thing the other day.

[Oblivion]

Well, it's up to you.
But, think: If something goes wrong, can you move out? No. Can he? No. That's the difference between masturbating with friends and brothers. Friends, you can leave it whenever you want. Brothers, you can't.

Plus, anything further (oral sex, anal sex, etc.) would be both statutory rape (assuming you are bother under 16-18 [depending on state] and live in the US) and incest. It could easily lead to these things which would be quite bad for you and him.

[jeforey3]

me and my brother are also enemies. i constantly annoyed or mad just being around him

[vito22andolini]

I see a huge problem here, well several:

1. It may become awkward between you and your brother afterwards and ruin your relationship.
2. He may not want to, and afterwards think of you differently, doing the above point.
3. Masturbating may turn into something else, should he accept. And that would probably be illegal.
4. Imagine if your parents caught you?
5. Dude, he's your brother... it's just weird...

Well, it's up to you but I've told you how I feel. Bad idea imo.

I agree!! (no offense) masturbating with his own brother is seriously wierd .

[Hoshwaa]

Is "your friend" already doing this? Or are you asking whether you think it would be okay for him to try and do this?

[HelloWorld123456]

Hell no man ! Idk but 99.9% i am right ... i think this is called incent ? It is totally wrong .. if i were you i'd listen to donkey

[jeforey3]

well i wouldnt msturbate with my brother.
nor would i take a shower with him in the same tub, unless it was like the public showers.

[FalconSmash]

The word you were looking for is [b]incest[/i], and that is specifically having Anal/Vaginal/Oral sex with somebody in your family.

And I'm not sure you are 99.9% always right, and masturbating with his brother is no big thing. Really, I mean, you're both guys, you both have the same genitalia, and you both have the same urges, so what's the problem?

The real issue here is society and it looking down on guys getting anywhere in seeing distance with another guy's junk. I mean, think about it, before society became like this, I'm sure people were very open about it.

[LUCKY555]

it would be totally ok personally i wouldnt want to with my brother...it is your friends decision.

[alphabeta]

i agree with donkey. no offense, it actually could ruin your relationship with your bro.

[confusedboy]

Wish I had an older bro to do that with :(

[loz4]

Who ever says this is okey is messed up in the head DOnkey before made a master reply and I think that within the law it shouldn't happen and in most societys it shouldn't happen also as most people ahve pointed out HE IS YOUR BROTHER NOT BOYFRIEND

[The Joker]

Well, I personally think if you are the same age it might be OK, just be careful on not letting it develop into something else.

[Noah_101]

i think its ok if yur bother is ok with it also

[JackOfClubs]

If you are both really close as brothers, then you can if you want. But I can see it developing into a load of problems into the future. Personally I wouldn't.

[CestDan]

I guess It doesn't sound so correct, I mean, If I could have that situation, It would be very weird. In conclusion I will never do it.

[SkyKing]

it really depends on age..... i used to shower with my bros when i was young or when they wer young, i currently wank with them the younger ones and the older ones.

our realtionships are great with the exception of occational disagreements.

to sum it all up:
* showering--- nothing sexuel (we are all just men) but it can be weired when you are older cuase they or you might want their own space. but it really saves time and you might need to take care of the younger ones like what my older bros had to do and what i did to my younger bros.
* wanking --- Do not do it if they are really young or preassure them into doing it, but it's fine doing it together my older and younger bros and i even wank each other. we all have a meutal understanding. again sometimes we do it on our own as again we somethime need our own space.

[kdddd]

I see a huge problem here, well several:

1. It may become awkward between you and your brother afterwards and ruin your relationship.
2. He may not want to, and afterwards think of you differently, doing the above point.
3. Masturbating may turn into something else, should he accept. And that would probably be illegal.
4. Imagine if your parents caught you?
5. Dude, he's your brother... it's just weird...

Well, it's up to you but I've told you how I feel. Bad idea imo.

I also agree here but its just our opinions so i suppose its up to you anyways

[YourFriend]

I don't think it's good to do something like that. You're risking your relationship, you can loose it or it can become even worse... and that's like only 1 of 20 reasons.

[DJthekid]

i completely agree with donkey on this 1

[iamm12345n]

wait if u think its ok and ur brother thinks its ok then it fine i meen if hes the same age thats ok like some twins do it (i meen wanking)

[Triceratops]

The idea of doing something like that with a sibling just horrifies and disgusts me. That's just my opinion.

[Gumleaf]

i think its ok if yur bother is ok with it also

please don't bump old threads