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ThatDude93
April 13th, 2009, 06:53 PM
Ok well I get turned on by guys sometimes.

Like a well fit guy in briefs or boxer briefs.....I guess it the bulge....makes me have a boner

I usually consider myself straight-curious

can I still consider myself that even though I have this underwear fetish?
Ladysman
April 13th, 2009, 07:53 PM
No not a fetish in my opinion
Ladysman
April 13th, 2009, 07:54 PM
Then agian a fetish is when you are sexualy aroused
ThatDude93
April 13th, 2009, 08:03 PM
yeah and it does arouse me I guess...I get a boner...I am pretty sure that is sexual arousal....but its not like that's all I think about or I like dream out it at night...it is no where near that serious.

I just think it is sort of hot....lol that sounds wrong coming from me....
Ladysman
April 13th, 2009, 08:15 PM
Then nit a fetish ur just going thro puberty i get "aroused" also just hormones
byee
April 13th, 2009, 10:22 PM
Well, it's not really a fetish in the clinical sense. For it to be that, *whatever* it is MUST be present for arousal to occur. It's not just something that turns you on or arouses you. So, what you've got is this *thing* for undies, it's arousing to you, b/c..... it just is. Underwear IS arousing, afterall, it holds sexual parts and feels nice, you know what's underneath, and you can see the outline of the penis and scrotum, which are sexual parts and therefore arousing.. So, arousal by underwear is normal, and actually quite common.

Besides, your sexuality is most certainly NOT defined by what turns you on, it's far more complicated than that.
pcd31
April 13th, 2009, 10:35 PM
I consider myself to be straight, I date girls and I would never see myself dating a guy. Guys and girls both turn me on though. It's just hormones to me.
ThatDude93
April 13th, 2009, 11:54 PM
K it all makes since now, I should have known it all along...I hate hormones.....lol
Zero Beat
April 14th, 2009, 04:38 AM
Then nit a fetish ur just going thro puberty i get "aroused" also just hormones


everyone blames puberty and hormones XDDDD coz its probly true...
mrp1221
July 6th, 2009, 06:26 PM
yes, i do, and i'm curious
malibueedudde
July 6th, 2009, 08:22 PM
yes.
ThUnDeR
July 7th, 2009, 11:55 AM
i dont see it a s afetish but you can def still be straight likin that
Shadowhunter
July 7th, 2009, 10:58 PM
Yeah you can still consider yourself straight