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[LMNOP]

Does any body have any advice like ways to start the conversation for asking my mom if i can be circumcised. Because i am uncut and almost everybody in my family is cut and i hate the feeling of foreskin.

[MisterAndrews]

They won't circumcise you at 13 because you want to. You actually need a medical reason.

[Donkey]

Hi...

Well, I don't think a circumcision should be done without being medically neceserry, but it is up to you. Your body, after all...

I honestly don't know much about it, you may not be able to get one without need at your age, but if you can:

It is a personal thing and I think she will understand if you just go straight into it. Find a quiet time, when you're both relaxed and alone. Start a conversation about anything, and eventually say "oh I remember--" and tell her how you feel about it.

[rugbykidd]

i think you may be able to have it done on medical, or religious grounds(with parents concent)... However if not then you should be able to have it done when you "legally" become an adult whenever that may be where you live. :).. as for the conversation with your mom, just treat it as any other convo and play it cool, she will understand.. mums do :)

[MisterAndrews]

The thing is i dont think they will let you at all... you cant just pull a medical reason out of thin air, and if you were going for religious grounds then you would have had it done earlier. I think your mam will probably say this as well.

But yea, like rugbykid said, mums always understand, so just ask.

[byee]

(Adam, the medical system is diff here in the US.)

I think if you want anything from your folks, regardless of what it is, you should just ask for it. Just b/c it's your penis doesn't change that, just be prepared (as you would wth any parental request) to explain your decision.

[iceyfresh]

I wouldent do that without a medical or religious reason mate.

[MisterAndrews]

(Adam, the medical system is diff here in the US.)


ah ok i forgot. am i right in thinking you'd have to pay for it? Quite alot of money for such a little operation, which leads to alot of discomfort. Remember if you change your mind they can't stick it back on!

[Tommie]

If you really want it done, talk to you mom and hope for the best, im not sure they'll let you.
but if they do be prepared the reason they do it to jewish boys so young is because the nerves in your penis arent as developed. but now your nevers are developing at full speed so be prepared for a shock

[marktheman]

Just find a quiet time with your mom and just tell her you have something you need to talk to her about and it's very personal, so she'll understand. It might be embarrassing at first, but once you start talking about it and she knows what it's about, it should get easier.

[pontiacdriver]

Does any body have any advice like ways to start the conversation for asking my mom if i can be circumcised. Because i am uncut and almost everybody in my family is cut and i hate the feeling of foreskin.

In all honesty, it is going to be a non-starter for your family to have you circumcised just for cosmestic reasons. You need to make a medical argument for your desire to be circumcised such as saying that your foreskin is really tight, you have trouble urinating, your foreskin is hard to clean, etc. Any of those reasons is usually good enough to enable you to get a circumcision. However, you are 13, and a doctor might be really reluctant to perform such a procedure on you with your still growing. My suggestion is that why don't you wait until you are a little older, and if you still feel the same way when you are nearing the end of puberty, then get cut then.

[TheFreeshooterII]

Ok
1: If Its a Tight Foreskin you Have Gently Push It Back while in the shower/bath eventually it will start loosening
Ive been doing this and its already working great!
2: If Its Just for your own preferences then ask or wait till your old enough and get the operation then

[Bobfrank543]

I understand how that would result in an awkward conversation...youre going to need to tell them in order to get it... youre probably gonna be in alot of pain after too. I would recommend calling the whole thing off, unless its medically nessisary

[kipper]

they do it when your a baby cause your brain is not fully developed and you will not remember the pain have the top of your skin cut off is pain full and pointless i advise you not to