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AlwaysConfused
April 13th, 2009, 04:31 PM
Well alot of the boys and some of the girls call me gay because i have a whole bunch of frends who r grls and a few guy frends. I dnt like anybody (got torn apart by cheaters and fakers) now that i have gone thru 3 relationships, but its very difficult cuz i here my frendgrls talkin bout guys and i start looking at wat they are refferin to. Help!!!!!

IAMWILL
April 13th, 2009, 09:46 PM
Oh this ones is easy.

Two things here. 1) why in the world would you friends think your gay if you have lots of girlfriends? Because they're jealous, and the girls are just teasing you. 2) it's totally fine to want to know what girls are talking about, but just relax. 90% of the time they won't talk about you or other boys in your presence. They're probably just taking about the dress someone wore at the party last Friday, girl stuff like that. Don't worry, you're just slightly overreacting :)

byee
April 13th, 2009, 10:08 PM
Your sexuality is not determined by the types of friends you have! They're teasing you, unfortunately, being called 'Gay' is a horrible way to hurt someone's feelings. It's not a reflection of their X ray ability to read your psyche, it's more about the dumbness of adolescence.

Forget it. When they say it, laugh with them.