Oh No!

[Viral Death]

Well I am good friends with the girl that I really really like I mean that I would spend the rest of my life with, well back to the point I asked if she would care who I liked and she asked me and I gave her hints for about a month and today she figured out that it is her. I dont know how this will change our friendship and I dont know if she cares about me as much as I care about her. I need some help.

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[Θάνατος]

What happened when she figured out the it is here that you like.

Did she act happy when she found out you like her.

We kinda need more information before we can give a lot of advice here.

[Gumleaf]

ok, so if she's figured it out then you are basically in a position now where you need to talk about it with her otherwise things might get awkward in your friendship. has she given any indication of how she feels about it? if she hasn't, then you have 2 options. you can tell her that you like her, but you are happy to just stay friends and keep things how they are now, or you can take the plunge and ask her out properly. but the thing is though, you really need to talk to her about it, because otherwise its going to be awkward if you don't.

[Viral Death]

Well I kinda gave her hints on how her life is and the last hint was "This girl is between 4"8 and 5"5" and she said, "is it me?" I told her yes and she said, "lol I am 5"2 you have a hard time figuring out height"

I am afriad that some day I will try to ask her out and and she will put me down. Every night I play a song that makes me think of her and I sit up all night and cry. I have a low self esteem and I just cry and dont go to sleep I just wait to get dressed and go to school.

[IAMWILL]

Okay, these is where your deciscions really matter.

It seems as though you have a usual teenage crush, and that's totally fine. This could be a major turning point in your relationship, so you must handle it accordingly. Even though you didn't give much background on this, I'll try to answer my best.

Depending on the girl, they sometimes feel wonderful and super happy or kinda worried and thoughtful, as in they think about this a lot. The best way you can approach this is be calm, relaxed, and give her time. Still talk to her at night, but maybe not as long. Lay off a little on the flirting, but make sure she knows you like her. It's all about being comforting and available (as in ready if she wants to talk). Just be normal, let her decide what path she wants to take, and enjoy the ride.

Edit: that took me awhile to respond, so I didn't see the posts above, so in response:

Honestly, STAY HAPPY. Sitting up listening to a song and crying all night is something you just gotta avoid. Good physcological mindset is key, because it puts you in a great mood with a lot of self confidence. What you're doing now is basically trying to convince yourself you'll never be with her, and trying to make yourself feel so sorry for yourself she will notce somehow, feel bad for you, and then as a result go out with you. Ya, that never works.

You need to just stay happy and not worry. Thats it.

[Gumleaf]

mate, you can't go on like this, you need to do something. now she knows how you feel, that will help. but like i said before, you have to talk to her about it.

[Viral Death]

Every where I go I am the loner I see couples and I just want to leave and never come back I have been dumped by my ex and that kinda makes me happy because it hurts me to break up with them. But when I see couples I just think I will never be that happy in my life time

[rossafc92]

I'm in a different but similar situation to you here. I really really liked one of my best friends too, and she just found out I liked her like that through another friend last week. This weekend has been awkward for us, because she's realised that all her flirting with me etc has only made my feelings get stronger and she feels really bad for it. I'm gutted too, but we've made sure we're still going to be good friends with eachother.
You don't want that sort of awkwardness like I had to linger, because it gets you and the other person down regardless of whether the feelings were mutual or one way. Make sure you still speak to her as a friend etc, but make sure you talk about this to her and clear the air. If she's your friend she will speak to you about this too. The worst thing you can do here is ruin your friendship, and you just have to make assurances that that doesn't happen, but with a view to possibly taking things further - if she's up for it too. Don't let it get you down, you'll be fine. :yes:

[Viral Death]

Well I asked her if she cares for me and she said yes but only as a friend. I told her all my deep dark secrets and it looks like I am screwed