View Full Version : Cant Masturbate when standing up or when in the shower..
Blkbeltteen
April 12th, 2009, 05:47 PM
Is this normal??:confused::confused::confused::confused:
sheppardzwc
April 12th, 2009, 05:58 PM
That depends.
What exactly do you mean by you can't? If you mean you can't reach an orgasm, then it's probably either A) you haven't grown enough to be able to do it in that kind of a position or B) you've already done it today and/or can't focus. Try and turn on the warm water, use some lube (i.e. soap [be careful, will hurt after you're done]) and have fun. :D
nick
April 12th, 2009, 05:59 PM
Er, no I would say its not normal. Some people would find the effect of the water in the shower might disturb things, but most guys (don't know if yr a guy or a girl) would be a able to wank standing up, indeed most will have done so with some frequency
Blkbeltteen
April 12th, 2009, 06:56 PM
Well.. I have masturbated while standing up before (Best experience ever by the way) And I have been able to reach an orgasm... However now that I do it in the shower the water seems to have an effect on my ability to feel pleasure. Yes I am a guy and do have that appendage.
And it only helps if im sitting down and or Lying down.. And the times that I have been able to reach orgasm I had to stiffen my legs quite a bit and it hurts..
Im 15. If your wondering
Blkbeltteen
April 12th, 2009, 06:59 PM
Well.. I have masturbated while standing up before (Best experience ever by the way) And I have been able to reach an orgasm... However now that I do it in the shower the water seems to have an effect on my ability to feel pleasure. Yes I am a guy and do have that appendage.
And it only helps if im sitting down and or Lying down.. And the times that I have been able to reach orgasm I had to stiffen my legs quite a bit and it hurts..
Im 15. If your wondering
The times that i have been able to reach an orgasm when im standing up sorry i needed to clarify
Leprachaun
April 12th, 2009, 07:01 PM
i know what you mean. I find it harder to masturbate standing in the shower than anywhere else but I don't know why.
johnstone
April 12th, 2009, 07:56 PM
Well.. I have masturbated while standing up before (Best experience ever by the way) And I have been able to reach an orgasm... However now that I do it in the shower the water seems to have an effect on my ability to feel pleasure. Yes I am a guy and do have that appendage.
And it only helps if im sitting down and or Lying down.. And the times that I have been able to reach orgasm I had to stiffen my legs quite a bit and it hurts..
Im 15. If your wondering
Oh my god. This is exactly like me! I sometimes have to really tense my thighs to reach an orgasm. And also in the shower, it just doesn't feel as good.
footman2831
April 12th, 2009, 08:11 PM
It's much harder to do it standing up or in a shower, from what I've heard.
newfiee 13
April 12th, 2009, 08:47 PM
I can masterbate standing up and cum. But I can't in the shower
Oblivion
April 12th, 2009, 08:49 PM
Completely normal. Happens to a lot of people.
I've heard it's because of the distraction of the water hitting you/the floor, and it doesn't let you concentrate on the act.
The Joker
April 12th, 2009, 09:09 PM
I can do it, but honestly I prefer just lying down in bed and doing it.
Stark
April 13th, 2009, 12:03 AM
I'm the same, I figure it's harder for something to happen when your standing up because it's not as comfortable, but I don't know why it takes a long time in the shower.
Donkey
April 13th, 2009, 04:16 AM
It's honestly up to the person what they like, you don't have to masturbate in the shower if you don't want to obviously. But it is completely normal for you not to experience as much pleasure as if you were not in the shower, I know I don't.
TheFreeshooterII
April 13th, 2009, 08:36 AM
whoah
my fav masterbating place is the shower
i think the warm water relaxes me and allows me to concentrate
marktheman
April 13th, 2009, 09:33 AM
I've heard guys say they cant do it in the shower, but I do it all the time. I guess its just that everybody's different.
chris__robin
April 13th, 2009, 09:37 AM
don't worry buddy its the same here can't do it standing up its too much effort.
i don't know where you live but we're in a drought in my part of Oz so taking the time to wank in the shower is not a water-saving technique ... the government don't like it lol.
BirdsandtheBees
April 13th, 2009, 02:38 PM
I'm 13 and I have masturbated in the shower. Sometimes I sit down and let the water fall down on me. I can do it standing up, but it feels better leaning against a wall or sitting down in my opinion. I can orgasm just fine standing up.
If you dont like the clean up from ejaculating, standing up gives you an easy cleanup, i.e. just wipe off the shower door.
If you like ejaculating then you get a lot more options of where to let lose...
pickle_guy
April 13th, 2009, 09:29 PM
Oh my god. This is exactly like me! I sometimes have to really tense my thighs to reach an orgasm. And also in the shower, it just doesn't feel as good.
Me too! It took ages ( in the shower) but i finally reached orgasm. Very intense!:D
pcd31
April 13th, 2009, 10:21 PM
I'm the same. My arm just hurts after a while and i give up. I can lie down in the tub or stand anywhere else but not with the water running. My best times are lying in bed.
confusedand14
April 13th, 2009, 10:44 PM
I prefer lying down, but I have done it in the shower and/or standing up without a problem.
The Joker
April 13th, 2009, 11:32 PM
It was really hard, and took me a while, but I did it in the shower, and it was great, but it really tired me out.
hump p
January 23rd, 2010, 10:37 PM
just sit down in the shower
Severus Snape
January 23rd, 2010, 10:42 PM
it takes way too long in the shower
Jesusb
January 24th, 2010, 12:35 AM
I can't do it in the shower and standing up is really hard for me to cum idk why
Mike627
January 24th, 2010, 12:37 AM
Yeah that happens to me too cause like if I try to standing up I get all shakey but when I lay down in my tub with the shower on and let it hit my...thing...... It feels way better that way but I feel u
ati5870
January 24th, 2010, 10:33 AM
Standing up, not really, in the shower i usually cant even get hard.
NickWoods
January 24th, 2010, 12:21 PM
I have to be rly horny to do it standing up. and lean on the wall or something.
micah21
January 24th, 2010, 02:16 PM
it seems pretty weird...
BigBulge
January 24th, 2010, 03:27 PM
maybe, for you, it's just a big turn-off
Shadowhunter
January 28th, 2010, 10:02 PM
no problem doing it standing up but not in the shower
poker852
January 28th, 2010, 10:06 PM
i last a lot longer standing up than sitting down..idk why lol. in the shower..much longer to the point where i just give up lol
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