Am I movingg to fast ?

[Squisheee]

Hey , Guys n' Girls .. I've been datingg this dude for alittle over two weeks now .. Im 13 .. We have been datinggg .. and we made .. promise to eachother like we are ganna be eachothers first's (not anytime soon , when we were 15 or so) and we will be together forever .. :wub:

He makes me happy , makes me feel special ..
we have started touchingg , I am kinda shy soo .. i havent touched him yet .. but he has started touchingg me .. I like it :whoops: , im kewl with it .. he wants me to touch him .. I AM TALKING ABOUT .. rubbing his legg and stuff .. nothingg tooo extreme :what:
I personally LOVE his rubs my belly ..
But today we were at my house .. and he was touchingg me and he kinda went upp .. under my bra .. I was kindaa =/ okay with that too .. But ughh .. do you think we are movingg to fast to soon ?

He asks me if I am okay with it , I say yes ..
He has been my first kiss .. and boyfriend .. he is caringg .. he would never do anythingg I wouldnt wanna .. but where do I draw the line ?

And I kno this is longg sorry ! , but I also have another question .. what could I do .. like rubbing his legg .. small , thinggs















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I'm the confused kind on your doorstep :P

[Cloud]

aslong as your okay with it then its fine jsut make sure he doesnt do anything ur not okay with thats where u draw the line.

[Θάνατος]

I agree here do only what you are comfortable with. You draw the line when you are no longer comfortable with the pace of what is going on.


I hope what I have said here helps you. Good luck.

[IAMWILL]

Oh I love this stuff!

Okay, there are a few things in this, so lemme go down the line.

Being thirteen is a very interesting age when in relationships because you start to do stuff that gets a little more.... Intimate then just kissing. Great deciscion in holding of on sex until you're older, almost everyone says they regret it when they do it earlier. It seems as though you two really connect well, and this seems like it could be a great relationship!

Now when 13, parents (I'm 13 too btw) are very very overprotective. Well, it seems like they are. You really don't want them to catch you doing anything, or they don't want any marks I.e. Hickies, because that can just start ruining things.

If you are comfortable with him, he doesn't push you, and you're 1000% yes one thousand percent comfortable with him, there really is no boundries. You can progress as slow or fast as you want, as long as you stay safe. Make sure though, next time you hang out and do stuff, don't do anything outside you comfort zone AT ALL. If he's a good boyfriend, which it seems he is, he'll stop and not push anything. If he does push though, he might not be Mr. Right.

[JoshDude]

Good advice so far. Umm, if you want to touch him, you could rub his leg, shoulder, back... anything. Put your head on his shoulder, sit next to him and wrap your arms around his wasit. That sort of stuff.

[byee]

13, huh? Hmmm.......

It's hard to answer you, you have to decide. And typically, if you have to ask, that means you're not totally comfortable with it, so you have the answer. It's hard to say no to someone who you "love", though. Maybe that's the issue?

If it is, remember true love means acceptance and respect, that one's needs are never more important than the other's. People listen, even when they don't like what they're hearing, and even if it involves the words "No", or "Stop".

[Beautiful Obsession]

well maybe you might be moving a lil to fast but as long as you feel comfortable with it and arnt jst letting him touch you to make him happy then its ok. But dont do anythign you dont want to. If he does something you dont want to do simply say no. You say he wudnt do anything you dont wanma. then he will be cool with it.

As for your last question. You could rub his leg, hold hands, put ur arm around his waste etc..

remember dont do anything you dont want to..

pm me if you wanna ask anything:) xx