first time masterbating... why does it hurt?

[kaibaby14]

ok. today, i welll... tried masterbating. and . it kinda hurts. everytime i try to put something... in theree.... it hurts alott. and when i masage my clit.. it felt goood. and . then . it started hurting too !



can anyone tell me if this is normal. and . when it will stop hurting?

[AllThatIsLeft]

were you lubricated?
if you weren't lubricated, that is probably guy it hurt.

and if you insert anything in the vagina you must be careful, as it was your first time, it would hurt.

[kaibaby14]

thanksss. !

(:

[Loislane]

Make sure before you do it again you get yourself very wet. Especially since you haven't had much experience with it.
You can do this just by thinking dirty thoughts, watching porn or slowely rubbing yourself and you're clit. Try doing it with you're fingers at first, then gradually look around for objects. Take you're time.

Also. If you DO use objects, wash them very well before and after use.

[BeautifulSilence]

I totally gree with Paula here. If you're not lubricated (either naturally or with lubricants you cn buy) it's going to hurt when you insert something into yourself. And also if you're rubbing too hard.

With the whole insertion thing, it's better to start with thinner objects and slowly work your way up - that way the pain wont be s obvious because your slowly stretching yourself. Lioslane also has it right on taking your time and clening before nd fter use.

[hray2k]

You know how that stuff comes out when u masterbate? Use it to lubricate your clit.

You can start with a banana and go to a cucumber.

~Please use the edit feature to prevent double posting. Laura.

[Claire.m]

That is so true, lubrication is the key::)

[TessTheGreat]

That is so true, lubrication is the key::)

Yeah but I've never even tried putting anything inside anyway but I guess that's probably true :)

[gurquenjen]

Make sure before you do it again you get yourself very wet. Especially since you haven't had much experience with it.
You can do this just by thinking dirty thoughts, watching porn or slowely rubbing yourself and you're clit. Try doing it with you're fingers at first, then gradually look around for objects. Take you're time.

Also. If you DO use objects, wash them very well before and after use.

This. Entirely and utterly this.
Learn to love your clitoris before you think about putting something into you...objects are great (fingers are better, I think, especially when you first start out)...take all the time you can just enjoying every bit of your body outside your vagina (your clit, your lips, your nipples, etc, find your erogenous zones) before you put anything into you. Lube is also helpful, even if you're wet, lube can just get something up there without any pain or discomfort....

[yeehaw]

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