i left him.... :S

[sienna.]

last night i did something i thought i would never ever do.
i left my boyfriend matt..

i'm 17 and he's 20.
but i never thought that the age difference meant anything.
me and him were living together and everything was great.

but he hit me a few times.
and in the last week or so..
he threw me up aginst a wall and broke my ribs. (but i kinda deserved it)
and then 2 days ago, he hit me and gave me a blood lip and a swollen cheek.

but then last night we got into a massive argument...
and i got so mad.
so i packed a bag and i left.

and now i am staying at my bestfriends housee..
he hates matt so he was really happy.

but now that i am not so angry i can't help but worry i have made the wrong decision....
i couldn't sleep at all last ngiht.
i don't know what to do.

have i done the right thing???

[MysticalBurrito]

Yes you have he hurt you!
someone who claims to love you wont hit you punch you or anything of the sort
you deserve better than that!

[Truth]

Thank god. I don't even know you and i know 100% you deserved better then that loser. From your posts, you make it sound like he was lying to you.. It's obvious you did the right thing, and im glad for you. Never stay with an abusive bf, and no, a girl NEVER deserves to be hit in a non self defence situation. =D

[Gumleaf]

he hits you, and holds you up against the wall. thats horrible and you don't deserve that, no girl ever deserves that. packing up and leaving sounds like a really good move. i know it will be hard. when you aren't angry and he isn't angry i'm sure things are great. that is until he gets angry again and you end up being the one that is hurt. and the thing is, it probably won't get any better either. a relationship like that isn't good at all and getting out of it will be good for you. this sort of thing worries me, especially when you say you sort of deserved it. you didn't sort of deserve it at all. and its when you start thinking like that, it makes it really bad. congrats for having the courage to leave him last night. i do hope now that you don't go back to him. you don't deserve to suffer from physical abuse like that.

[sienna.]

i've made a big mistake.

[byee]

No one ever 'deserves' to have their ribs broken. That's violence, it's abuse, and it's unacceptable.

You (and everyone else) are worth being loved and cherished for who you are (faults and all). If this scum bag cannot recognize that, good riddance. It is better to be alone.

[Donkey]

i've made a big mistake.

No you haven't. You did the right thing. Can't you see the violence was getting worse and worse? If you had stayed with him, imagine what he could have done now? Just stay away from guys like that. It's better to know you're safe.

:hug:

[The Batman]

A man who puts his hands on a woman is fucking coward lower than dog shit stuck to the bottom of a boot. I've seen my mom get hit by my dad and I've seen my sister get thrown threw a door by him and it's really gotten me to hate guys who would hit a woman. No one ever deserves to get hit and a man that hits a woman doesn't love her at all.

[Beautiful Obsession]

you have defo made the right decision! he has hit you, abused you and you dont deserve it. the first time he layed a finger on you, you should have walked.. but havin your ribs broken, you should go to the police! whats hes done is wrong, please dont go back to him, you dont know what might happen x

[Aηdy]

you will look back on this and realise this is the right choice that you have made. no guy should ever hurt a girl to that extent in a relationship. you must not go back to him. and dont ever let him make you feel like it's your fault! he really does not deserve you.

[HPstoner]

If I was you're bestfriend, Matt would be in the hospital.
You made the right decision, just dont go back to him. He's abusive and if he hit you once, he'll do it again. STAY AWAY.

[Triceratops]

You DIDN'T deserve to have your ribs broken, or go through any of that suffering and torment. You aren't the one in the wrong, he is.

This will take some time to get used to as it's a big change. The decision you made was for the best, sweetie. You have done the right thing, and things can only get better for you. I know you feel you love him dearly but he is not worth it, seriously, he isn't.

It's good that you have a best friend to stay with, as they can comfort and support you.

Good luck <3

[MaddyC]

GOD DAMN GIRL, you deserve wayyy more than that guy Matt.
He hit you, and no-one deserves that, no matter what they have done. And its not like it happened just one time .... it happened multiple times, which just makes it all the more unforgiving.
Although it may seem now like you made a big mistake, trust me when I say you didnt.
He should never have hurt you, and he doesnt deserve to have someone as lovely as yourself as a girlfriend.
Im sorry you had to go through all of that, but things can only get better from here on in.
Your best friend will help you through this, its awesome that you have a support network to get you through these tough times.
I wish you the best of luck, and trust me and everyone else who replied when we say "you did nothing wrong, and you didnt deserve to be hurt at all"
xxx

[sienna.]

you all are gonna get mad at me.
but i took him back.
we are back together.
that night when i stayed at my bestfriends house and that morning i realised that leaving him was a big mistake.
i love him.
and he loves me.

he really is a good boyfriend.
and i think leaving him was the wrong decision.

[Viral Death]

You need to do what is best, and if you think this is the best then you do it we will have no problem with it.

Thanks,
Colton_Reeves