Hey guys im really confused

[cheetin]

There is this girl in my school who I like but I have never asked her out. Just a few months ago she started going out with one of the guys who I hang out with during lunch. I have no problem with her going out with him but its starting to get a bit weird. She has gotten very attached to this guy but I believe now she is starting to have some doubts. I knew from the start they wouldn't work together and Im very surprised it has lasted this long so far but here is where my problems start

A) I believe she likes me alot more than him due to the fact she always gets very close to me even when we are around him

B) He doesn't pay attention to her when she needs help and she is really starting to get annoyed

C) I am the one she comes to for help whenever she need something

So here I am stuck... I really don't care if she is going out with him and I want her to be happy so I don't want them to break up, but the fact that she seems to like me even more when I try to help catches me in a position where i feel like Im taking advantage of the situation for my pleasure.
So Im totally caught and kicking myself for not knowing what to do. So Im stuck with 2 choices
1. Let her figure it out for herself but it will kill me to see her break down
2. Help her out and I know she will end up breaking up with him and I will feel guilty.
So please I need some help. Its like being in front of a glass tank thats filling up with water and she is in in it. I could break the glass and the water would kill me or I could leave her there to drown..

I know everything will end up alright I just need some help to find the best way to do it.

Edit: I forgot to add that I don't really like him which makes it even harder.... but I DON'T CARE IF THEY ARE TOGETHER... I know that I missed my chance a long time ago and i accept that.

[BuryYourFlame]

If her b/f doesn't listen to her, then you should have a talk to her, and suggest getting her to tell him about the problem. From this talk, they will either get stronger as a couple, or they will break up. I know it will be hard to suggest, because you have feelings for her, and it could make their relationship stronger, but he is your friend, you need to respect that she is his girlfriend atm, not yours.

[cheetin]

If her b/f doesn't listen to her, then you should have a talk to her, and suggest getting her to tell him about the problem. From this talk, they will either get stronger as a couple, or they will break up. I know it will be hard to suggest, because you have feelings for her, and it could make their relationship stronger, but he is your friend, you need to respect that she is his girlfriend atm, not yours.See as I said I dont care if they are together...And as I said I dont want her to get to close because she might dump him cause of me..

[Truth]

Meh. There's no way to tell without asking, one girl showed every sign that she liked me in my class, when i said i liked her, she pretty much turned me down and was an ass to me then on. =P She liked other guys then was sad when the guys turned her down. Ohwell, idc much anymore.

[unknown2011]

i've been in a similar spot. i did nothing and that sucked. i wouldnt just let it pass you by. maybe talking with her will help but dont push anything on her.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: