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kevn
April 9th, 2009, 06:32 PM
I never have an erection when I saw women, however it happen when I saw men.
I never take it seriously but now I think it starts to affect my life.
I know it's still my puberty but I am str8 but I want to have a puberty like anyone else.
Is there anyway to help this because it is like my penis has it own problem even I interest to women.
sorry about my grammar and than you for reading

IAMWILL
April 9th, 2009, 07:46 PM
Grammar forgiven. Okay, this could be a few things, but I'll stick to the two main ones.

First off, you may just have to accept that you're possible gay or bisexual, it's something you don't choose much in life. Otherwise, you may just be curious, and only noticing the guy side.

Secondly though, it could be that if you have a sister or such who always has friends over (this is just a theory) or you hang out with girls a lot, your mind has just gotten used to seing females, and they don't arouse you as much anymore.

kevn
April 9th, 2009, 08:46 PM
Thx for the answer :D
However, I must say that you are wrong about one thing. My life is involve with boys more than girls. I have brothers and I went to school that has only boys for 8 years (you'd better believe it). And it's the first year I change my school.

Can I change? What should I do?

Oblivion
April 9th, 2009, 08:53 PM
If you are in fact homosexual or bisexual, it is becoming more apparent to scientists that it is a part of your genetics or mind that controls it, and unless you want to be unhappy in your love life, it's quite impossible to change. (Theoretically)

If you are straight however, which is entirely possible, it's probably that you're a normal hormonal teenager that has little exposure to girls, and more exposure to boys.

Remember, regardless of what sexuality you are, you are perfectly fine. Many places, people, and countries are beginning to realize that gay and bi people are perfectly fine, and should be treated as such.

If I were you, I would simply wait until puberty is over, get more exposure to girls, and see how things turn out. Remember, physical and/or sexual attraction is only part of homosexuality; mental and emotional relationship is half as well. If you aren't emotionally and mentally attracted as well, you are probably not gay.

PS: During puberty a lot of boys exaggerate, to make themselves feel better. For instance, someone might say "Wow she gave me a huge boner!" or something, regardless of if she did or not, because they may be experiencing exactly what you are, and don't want others to realize it.

YourFriend
April 10th, 2009, 07:47 AM
Why not be just gay like me?

kevn
April 10th, 2009, 08:21 AM
sorry to interrupt you all but I start to have an erection toward woman now:D:D:D
Thx for the advice anyway